I never smoked because Dad did and had a wheezing cough while stinking the house up with his Winstons. But if he'd been a pipe smoker like my Uncle Al I might have picked up the habit—I remember those as smelling really nice.

I love the smell of pipe tobacco! I used to sniff the packages when I worked at a service desk that sold tobacco.

I didn't smoke until I was 20 or drink until I was 21, and my mother was too naive to understand actual things, but not too naive to go through my things.

I remember when I was in college she found a half full diet coke can and a lighter on my dressing table and was convinced I was doing drugs. There were no holes in the can, and if I was smoking pot she could have smelled it, and literally nothing I could say could convince her that this was not drug paraphernalia. I think she was also concerned about the (non-aerosol) hairspray she found with it. I was just so confused.

Both my siblings started smoking in college (well, I wouldn't be surprised if my sister was an occasional/social smoker in HS). I'm so glad I didn't, I'd be shit at quitting. My parents both used to smoke before I was born, but haven't in forever.

Msbelle, at least it wasn't a BB gun from amazon, like my friend found in her son's bag? (She's doing something similar to you and moving to be near family because she's at her wits' end and I am so sad about it)

Timelies all!

Tomorrow we head off on vacation. It's actually two trips with a day at home in between.(To do laundry and such.) First trip is to a resort in the Hudson Valley. My MIL turned 75 and wanted to do a family trip. Second trip is Worldcon in San Jose. I should have wi-fi in both places to some degree, so I won't be completely off-line.

Ah, the denial, deflect, and then accuse the accuser of something. Classic.

My kid, nothing if not textbook.

12 months until he is moved out.

So there are thunderstorms around tonight, but if it doesn't actually rain, I really have to water the yard. Right now I hear thunder/see lightning, but no rain. I should wait a while, right?

OK, it is actually raining, at least a little, so that's good.

Talking about it does make it happen.

I have figured out that my cousin is actually mad at capitalism, I guess? Her complaint seems to be that companies shouldn't be able to completely squash someone's right to express themselves. Putting aside the fact that this is Alex Jones...if you're mad that companies act in their own best interests, then you need to blame capitalism.

I'd vote wait! There are enough small cell t-storms in NE right now, one is bound to hit. My backyard got a sprinkle earlier, and I'm less than a mile from you.

Also I'm seeing some lightning out there!

Also, a small but cool thing from Lyfting this week: I picked up a young couple who had two huge wheelie duffels, plus backpacks, who had Logan as their destination. "Where are you going, Peru?" I said, which is my standard "far away place" suggestion.

"How did you know?" said the guy, REALLY confused.

I broke up laughing because how often does that happen?

Anyway, yes, they really were going there for the rest of the month, because his sister had a baby there and they were going to have a nice extended visit and then they were coming back to MA only to pick up their car and U-Haul and head out for CA.

Some people have all the adventure. :-) I live vicariously.