Sooner or later, you're gonna want it. And the second — the second — that happens, you know I'll be there. I'll slip in, have myself a real good day.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Scrappy - Nov 20, 2016 3:03:34 pm PST #2562 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Just got home from paying Mahjong with a group of female friends. It was great fun, especially the shared anger and vitriol about the recent election. I almost canceled this morning and am glad I made myself go. DH is off in Cabo San Lucas for a few days, driving the new Infinitis.


aurelia - Nov 20, 2016 3:28:38 pm PST #2563 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Aurelia do you have meds? Or just the ones you have don't work. I love my triptan.

OTC only.

Today I've mostly cuddled cats and called my dad to wish him a happy birthday. After last weekend's migraine followed by 14 hour days I'm wiped out.


Jesse - Nov 20, 2016 3:46:14 pm PST #2564 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ooh, Scrappy, a Mahjong group sounds so good!


hippocampus - Nov 20, 2016 5:43:18 pm PST #2565 of 30002
not your mom's socks.

I'm starting to get concerned about some of the messages ltc is getting from her grandparents now that her language skills are improving. Not sure what I should do about it.

sj, I can tell you from experience that ltc will absolutely develop a good filter for things like this. Knowing there are different viewpoints (and knowing where you stand on some things) is something we chose to do because we felt it was important too. Now that HPF is closing on teens (OMG HOW ONE MORE YEAR ACK) I can tell you that filter expands until they hear no messages whatsoever that don't come through spotify.

ION I am so ridiculously tired. I have to turn in big project on tuesday and I think tomorrow is onesday, right?


sj - Nov 20, 2016 5:47:06 pm PST #2566 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, everyone. I just remember growing up thinking my grandparents walked on water, and I know ltc already adores hers. So, I worry about what she is learning from them


meara - Nov 20, 2016 8:34:19 pm PST #2567 of 30002

Oh wow. Someone just rang my doorbell twice. By the time I realized my roommate wasn't answering it and went downstairs the person was gone. And I thought "what weird creepiness is this that someone rings my doorbell at 10pm?" A few minutes later I get an email from Nextfoor--one of my neighbors private messaged me there to say my garage door was open and he'd rung my doorbell to let me know! ...I had no idea you could private message someone on next door or know where they live?? Now I feel bad because I don't know which neighbor he is, and my garage is the other side of my house from the front door so it was a bit of a hike for him to do that!


Calli - Nov 21, 2016 1:37:47 am PST #2568 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

It was kind of him to try and help, meara. That's a good neighbor to have.


Laura - Nov 21, 2016 3:54:33 am PST #2569 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I didn't know this Nextdoor thing existed. Apparently a lot of my neighbors are in there. And a neighbor was giving away 6 bookcases yesterday.


Callaluna - Nov 21, 2016 4:09:29 am PST #2570 of 30002

My condolences to you and your family, Sail.

msbelle, I hope things get better between the two of you quickly. My daughter is six and with all the changes in our lives right now she's been moody and even hateful towards me on occasion. And I know it's expected and I know it will pass, but it hurts so much all the same. May he grow out of this phase soon. Because I'm sure it's a phase and there are better days ahead.

Meara's life has always been and will always be so much more exciting than mine. Sounds like a fascinating friendsgiving.

Speaking of Thanksgiving, I wish I could just sleep through it. Only two more miserable holidays to get through before I can be back home and celebrate things properly. Holidays have been brutal the last seven years. It will take me some time to regain the festive spirit.


Jesse - Nov 21, 2016 6:00:54 am PST #2571 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Argh -- my coordinator just gave notice. It was definitely time, but I was hoping we could find another position for her here before she went somewhere else! Also, I have no idea when she was even interviewing -- I would swear she hasn't had any appointments.