Buffy: Dancing with you is way better than trying to hook up with some good-looking guy. Xander: I think I liked it more when you were kicking me in my puffy groin.

'Get It Done'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Susan W. - Nov 20, 2016 7:13:40 am PST #2544 of 30002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

My note to him: "I have adopted the word demagogue in your honor on Wordnik. You are the perfect embodiment of the word and I could think of no better way to honor you. A Proud American, R. Boston"

Love this SO MUCH.

Yay Tim's party, and happy birthday to Tim!

A good writer friend of mine started a romance reader book club, so last night I got to spend 2.5 hours in a coffee house talking about how the latest Tessa Dare book's humor and witty banter was balm for our spirits when we truly needed it (since for all of us, it was our first book read after the election), then dissecting aspects of plot and characterization that didn't work so well for us, with recurring digressions on politics, favorite tropes, food, Hamilton, musicals in general, rewatchable movies (there was general consensus that Dirty Dancing never gets old, and I was part of a small but vocal group advocating for Bull Durham), etc. Good times. I should try getting out of the house more often (said the introvert coming out of a year of depression that primarily manifested as a desire to curl up inside and avoid humanity as much as possible).


WindSparrow - Nov 20, 2016 7:54:34 am PST #2545 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That does sound like a good time, Susan.


Zenkitty - Nov 20, 2016 8:02:05 am PST #2546 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

My note to him: "I have adopted the word demagogue in your honor on Wordnik. You are the perfect embodiment of the word and I could think of no better way to honor you. A Proud American, R. Boston"

This is a thing of beauty.

The person I want to say it to told me, "Yes. I can see you are full of love," in response to me explaining that I was calling out her internalized misogyny

What an ass.

I should try getting out of the house more often (said the introvert coming out of a year of depression that primarily manifested as a desire to curl up inside and avoid humanity as much as possible).

You are Not Alone. I'm going to an early T'day dinner this evening at a friend's house and I Don't Wanna. Friend is becoming somewhat annoying, drinking too much, and other attendees are strangers to me, so I'm hoping to be able to cut out early. Or, you know, maybe it'll be fun. But I expect we'll just talk politics and rant all night.


Susan W. - Nov 20, 2016 8:18:22 am PST #2547 of 30002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I'm going to an early T'day dinner this evening at a friend's house and I Don't Wanna. Friend is becoming somewhat annoying, drinking too much, and other attendees are strangers to me, so I'm hoping to be able to cut out early.

That sounds Not Fun in ways that go beyond introversion! Fingers crossed it's more fun than expected.


Zenkitty - Nov 20, 2016 8:22:12 am PST #2548 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, good, so I'm not just being a crazy hermit for not wanting to do this!

Ugh, gotta go dye my hair so I look presentable.


shrift - Nov 20, 2016 8:33:54 am PST #2549 of 30002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'm flying to Michigan this afternoon. Not sure how this is going to work out. I may donate to the NAACP for every racist thing people say in my presence, after I give them hell for it.

Friend is becoming somewhat annoying, drinking too much, and other attendees are strangers to me, so I'm hoping to be able to cut out early.

Man, sometimes I cancel plans with people I really like just because I can't manage it. This situation sounds like a recipe for awful.


Consuela - Nov 20, 2016 9:47:12 am PST #2550 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

So my sister & BIL's party went off pretty well, although I may have ordered way too much food. OTOH the food didn't go to waste: we sent a lot home with my niece's friends who did a lot of the work, and I got a nice pile of goat cheese and about a pound of leftover salumi. NOM.

Got in a dog walk, and now it's raining while I sit here and do some online banking. What did we do before we were able to apply for lines of credit while sitting on the couch?

Today would be a good day to make bread, but I don't really have anywhere to put it. Maybe I'll make pastry for Thanksgiving pie.


sj - Nov 20, 2016 10:13:56 am PST #2551 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm starting to get concerned about some of the messages ltc is getting from her grandparents now that her language skills are improving. Not sure what I should do about it.


Jesse - Nov 20, 2016 10:30:26 am PST #2552 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Just keep talking to her, I think.


meara - Nov 20, 2016 10:39:33 am PST #2553 of 30002

Are they using specific words you don't like, sj, or is it more a message/tone issue? I feel like specific words are a lot easier to ask someone to not use (be they curse words or derogatory language). But tone and message are of course much harder.