I don't give a good gorram about relevant, Wash. Or objective. And I ain't so afraid of losing something that I ain't gonna try to have it. You and I would make one beautiful baby. And I want to meet that child one day. Period.

Zoe ,'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Mar 02, 2018 7:43:21 am PST #22758 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I would also prefer not to work today! So far I have had three meetings and lunch. Two more meetings to go, and presumably some actual work in there in between.

It's not dangerous outside here, I guess, but it sure is nasty. I am skeptical that my coworker is going to fly out this afternoon.


SuziQ - Mar 02, 2018 7:43:36 am PST #22759 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

You may remember the drama from November 2016 when Jack bit an employee at PetCo. Well, this last November she filed a claim through a "strong arm" lawyer against my insurance, asking for my policy limit. This hit just prior to the final bite from him and having to say goodbye. Not a good time in any way, shape, or form.

My insurance has been great about keeping me up to date, asking for my input on how I wanted to proceed. Ultimately, it is their choice but I felt like a valued insured with expert protection. Anyway, we made a few settlement offers against the completely outrageous claims. I thought the offers were quite generous. But, of course, her lawyer kept insisting on the policy limit.

About a month ago, on my birthday actually, I got a call from the manager of the claims person I had been working with. He was advising me to consider retaining my own lawyer in case this ended up in court and somehow I lost. I would be liable for anything due over my coverage.

With all that has been going on elsewhere in my life, I hadn't been aggressive about finding a lawyer. The final claim letter said we had to agree to pay the policy limit by February 27th or they would file litigation. The insurance company, despite finding that I was not negligent and had video to back that up, blinked and notified me that they would be paying the full amount.

Yesterday I received a copy of the final release of any liability. I hadn't realized how heavy all that had been weighing on my shoulders but now that it is gone, I fell so much better.


Strix - Mar 02, 2018 8:02:11 am PST #22760 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Holy smokes, Suzi. That's...a lot. I'm glad it worked out ok.


Jesse - Mar 02, 2018 8:20:00 am PST #22761 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh jeez, Suzi. SO glad it worked out!

In other news, I am glad that my new team member seems comfortable enough being "one of the girls." He's the only man on a team of 12! But is already seeming relaxed and enjoying himself at the end of week 1.


-t - Mar 02, 2018 8:28:20 am PST #22762 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Sounds good to me, Dana.

Woot vacation!


-t - Mar 02, 2018 8:30:38 am PST #22763 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Phew, Suzi! So glad you don't have that hanging over you anymore!


msbelle - Mar 02, 2018 8:44:50 am PST #22764 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh Suzi that is a lot and all so awful. Why are people so awful?

I am at work and I have done work, but I am also watching a movie on my phone. Screw cleaning off my desk. It's friday and Oscar weekend and I feel exhausted and do not want to deal with people or work.


Beverly - Mar 02, 2018 9:01:24 am PST #22765 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Suzi, I'm glad for the relief.

Jesse, maybe Mr. Man is finding working among the women kind of relaxing and supportive. We can live in hope, anyway.

Yay for not-falling-over -t!

All best luck for B, Laura--and for all the kids he'll influence in that job!

Aww, I'm all nostalgic for the days when we could get passionate over grammar and gerundifciation. These days? Too emotionally and intellectually exhausted to enjoy a good gerund-cilantro-muffaletta-salad shooter dustup.


msbelle - Mar 02, 2018 9:36:50 am PST #22766 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Omg the kid I helped fill out voter registration last year is not registered. Either didn't mail it in or had some issue with it, we checked like 4 different addresses for him and cross checked by drivers license. Just did it again and then got into a little gun Debate with him.

Him "well it's complicated"
Me " of course it is complicated, most things are. Still, no other developed country has this issue on this level."
Him " we're more diverse"
Me "no, we're really not"
Him "it's cultural"
Me "yes, a lot of it is, but that has to change"
Him " those other countries are basically dictatorships"
Me ???? "Canada? Australia? England? Not dictatorships"
Him "England basically is, with the Queen"
Me ???!!!??!!? "She's not in power, you know that right? They have parliament and a prime minister"
Him "she owns all the land and really controls things"

Now I not sure I did the right thing getting him registered.


meara - Mar 02, 2018 9:49:24 am PST #22767 of 30002

Suzi that would have stressed me out SO BAD. glad for you it's over!

Jesse, last night I was at a team dinner that was 10 women and one guy, but my part of the industry is pretty female-centric so he hadn't really noticed!