Also, you can tell it's not gonna have a happy ending when the main guy's all bumpy.

Tara ,'First Date'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - Feb 09, 2018 3:34:31 pm PST #22024 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

The beta board is now at [link] and invite codes are no longer needed for registration. Minimal functionality, but check it out.


beth b - Feb 09, 2018 4:50:55 pm PST #22025 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sending the ma~~~ Strix


Amy - Feb 09, 2018 5:47:46 pm PST #22026 of 30002
Because books.

I'm watching the opening ceremonies, and some of it has been really lovely. But I came in at the end, so it's just the artsy performance stuff.


Gudanov - Feb 09, 2018 7:39:45 pm PST #22027 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

Had some glitches switching from development to production environment, but I think the worst of it is fixed up now.


WindSparrow - Feb 09, 2018 8:01:41 pm PST #22028 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Gud, your skill and dedication amaze me.


meara - Feb 09, 2018 8:17:37 pm PST #22029 of 30002

I love watching the parade of nations. Especially for nations with like one or three athletes.


Zenkitty - Feb 09, 2018 9:14:13 pm PST #22030 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Strix, love and best outcome ~ma to your dad and you and your family.

Sophia, glad you got what you needed, cheers for good dentists!

Hugs and ~ma and fist bumps and blankets all 'round, take 'em as you need 'em!

None of us are imposters and we're all pretty great. That's what I say.


JZ - Feb 10, 2018 5:54:30 am PST #22031 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

So, so much love to you and your dad and your family, Strix. I'm glad he is comfortable and in good hands and not alone.

I have zero interest in the Olympics. My FB feed is full of people griping about various issues, including technical, and all I can think is, "Fucking CANCER. If the fucking cancer had left my brother alone, it'd all be flawless. Fucking cancer even ruins the Olympics, that ruiner."

He started his first round of chemo on the first, after a 4-day delay for blood problems (hyperviscosity treated with two rounds of plasma infusions) and insurance stupidity. Stem cell harvesting and transplant will happen sometime within the next month, but for now he's an outpatient curled up on the couch in the old apartment he and his husband hadn't yet gotten rid of when they moved to CT, which is now gruesomely convenient since it's only a couple of blocks from the hospital. He is sick and hurting and bored, and his husband is the champion of all champions.

And the rest of us are stuck out on the other coast, waiting for word on how we can help, if at all. (Naturally, families being what they are, the one relative who's financially best equipped to just bop down to the nearest airport and jump on a nonstop cross-country flight without a second thought is also the one who's least emotionally equipped to do anything useful once he gets there.) And my mom is getting queasy indications from another family member that her long-ago instincts were right and said member was never really okay with my brother being out and married. And I feel small and helpless and all I can think about, when I let myself think about him, are all the times I failed him and ignored him and was a generally shitty big sister.


Laura - Feb 10, 2018 6:39:10 am PST #22032 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

All my love, JZ. I'm willing to bet heavily that your little brother thinks he hit the jackpot of big sisters. Vibing hard that the treatments go better than expected and that the insurance issues resolve quickly. Strength to bro and bro-in-law.


Beverly - Feb 10, 2018 7:46:57 am PST #22033 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

JZ, I can't say better than Laura. Thinking of you and bro and family *so hard* with all the good and best I can muster.