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Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Nov 14, 2016 8:45:48 am PST #2109 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Everything is exhausting and depressing.

I did just have Indian food for lunch, at a cafe about 3 minutes away. I will be visiting there often.


Calli - Nov 14, 2016 8:47:57 am PST #2110 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations, Callaluna! Much new life~ma to you.

Amyth, I also have no Thanksgiving dinner plans, and I'm super convenient. Would you like to join me? I was planning on cornish hen(s), stuffing, asparagus, gravy, and maybe trying this cranberry curd tart recipe that's been in my notes for months.

{{smonster}}

Glam, I haven't been on FB much, and, hence, in the Pantsuit nation group, since the election. I'm sorry they're being such blindly privileged jerks about your obviously legit concerns.


Allyson - Nov 14, 2016 9:00:20 am PST #2111 of 30002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I can't pull myself up out of despair.


javachik - Nov 14, 2016 9:05:08 am PST #2112 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Glam, I am sorry. I left all of the Hillary FB groups except the very first one I ever joined. They were driving me nuts.

I know we post here, and we all have uses for Twitter and FB to varying degrees but I can't help that all the social media isn't...a good thing. And there's no going back. It's all become overwhelmingly depressing and upsetting to me. No one gives anyone the benefit of the doubt, or pays attention to nuance, or displays a generosity of spirit. It's just about tearing eachother down and having the pithiest soundbite go viral.

I think it's terrible for America and it culminated in this election. I still may deactivate my accounts because they are an addiction for me in so much as I cannot STOP RAGING AGAINST THE MACHINE.


Glamcookie - Nov 14, 2016 9:05:59 am PST #2113 of 30002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I can't pull myself up out of despair.

I'm in that pit with you.


Tom Scola - Nov 14, 2016 9:10:07 am PST #2114 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

I went to bed at 7:30 last night, and slept, in fits, until 6:30 this morning. I feel marginally better today.


Zenkitty - Nov 14, 2016 9:12:23 am PST #2115 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I still may deactivate my accounts because they are an addiction for me in so much as I cannot STOP RAGING AGAINST THE MACHINE.

I don't WANT to deactivate my accounts, I feel like I know more about what's really goin gon through FB and Twitter than the news, but even so, I'm like you, Nanita, it's almost addicting and it does not make me feel better.

I'm struggling not to slip back into the pit of despair I was in most of the year. I feel like Trump and his deplorable base has robbed me of my spirit.


javachik - Nov 14, 2016 9:18:02 am PST #2116 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I feel like I know more about what's really going on through FB and Twitter than the news,

This, and the connection I have with a few key people, is why I haven't yet. But I also don't know if keeping up with the news this way is helpful for me, either.


Atropa - Nov 14, 2016 9:22:06 am PST #2117 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

The latest thing I shared on FB (these awesome buttons) has brought out the annoying commentators. I'm trying to decide if I have the energy to engage.

hugs everyone here


sj - Nov 14, 2016 9:42:12 am PST #2118 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm so sorry that so many of you are dealing with trolls. I still think the internet has more upside than downside, but it can be so hard to figure out how to avoid the bad. Also, I love this place, in case I hadn't said it recently.