I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sarameg - Jan 08, 2018 3:07:01 pm PST #20847 of 30002

Slicker than snot out there. Bought it once coming back from the Y, probably won't even have a bruise, proving I still fall well.

Got word one of my main college profs is in home hospice, quickly declining.I haven't had any contact with the school in years, but he was an integral part of my college years, and a great teacher. He shepherded us through losing another beloved prof, one of the primary reasons I chose Guilford, the end of my freshman year. It just feels weird.


amych - Jan 08, 2018 3:28:05 pm PST #20848 of 30002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

It just feels weird.

I'm still not entirely over the very sudden death of my major undergrad prof a year after I graduated, and that was 25 years ago. It's hard to overstate what a great teacher can mean to your life.


sarameg - Jan 08, 2018 4:21:14 pm PST #20849 of 30002

Just learned he died tonight, as I was replying to another prof.

For me, for this, it isn't really grief. Lots of distance between me & college years. Just the void of another piece of my past gone & no one gets to create any new memories.


Zenkitty - Jan 08, 2018 8:12:30 pm PST #20850 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Glad your cat is okay, Calli.

I am depressed. No, maybe not depressed. Just, in the doldrums? IDK. It's been nigh impossible to do anything for nearly 2 weeks. I'm bored and restless and exhausted and sleeping way toomuch. Yeah, okay, I'm depressed. I think it's the cold and the lack of sunlight. Tomorrow it's supposed to be almost warm, I should go for a walk or something.


meara - Jan 08, 2018 8:17:03 pm PST #20851 of 30002

Oy. So, for Christmas every year my parents give us a check. I told my sister I would take her to Mexico with me, and figured I'd basically use that money to do it. So tonight I'm texting with her, going back and forth, and book a place for a week, and buy her plane ticket, and mine. Spend ALL the Money! ...and then I check the mail and find a letter saying "you did mobile deposit on this check but we reversed the deposit because it wasn't a good enough quality image". ACK. So then I had to go run around the house and try to figure out if I still had the check so I could try to re-deposit it! (Luckily I did find it)


-t - Jan 09, 2018 2:48:30 am PST #20852 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yikes, meara!

I'm sorry, Zen. I hope the weather cooperates, a walk sounds like a good idea. You have reminded me to turn on my Happy Light, so thanks for that.


sarameg - Jan 09, 2018 3:42:15 am PST #20853 of 30002

I've got to go chip at the ice on my sidewalk, but I'm waiting for the sun to do some work. It's kinda bad out there.


Fred Pete - Jan 09, 2018 3:56:24 am PST #20854 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

Working from home today, so I haven't been outside. But it's very foggy around here -- starting to lift.


Jesse - Jan 09, 2018 4:03:51 am PST #20855 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's so warm here! I didn't even wear my heavy coat. By which I mean 34 F. It's going to be a slushfest for the next couple of days.


lisah - Jan 09, 2018 4:30:27 am PST #20856 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

Am grateful for the yak trax I got last year on sale at REI! Sidewalks are still a mess out there. But even watching the dog slip and slide as we walked her was stressful. Even if she didn't care.