I got stabbed, you know, right here.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jan 05, 2018 1:34:08 pm PST #20750 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Unassailable logic.


-t - Jan 05, 2018 2:12:06 pm PST #20751 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Day was not as bad as I feared. My boss didn't want to, like, have a conversation about all this. I asked her for some help prioritizing and first she said "it's all high priority" which, yeah, that's the problem, and then at least she told me the next thing she's like me to work on which is more direction that I often get.

But I legit do not think this job is a good fit for me. I should probably quit and go back to the temp agency. Not until after the winter party, though, I've already RSVP'd with my deposit.


Steph L. - Jan 05, 2018 2:21:33 pm PST #20752 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I asked her for some help prioritizing and first she said "it's all high priority" which, yeah, that's the problem

Ugh. My old boss did this all the time. And then she wouldn't give me any further guidance. Like, I can't physically work on more than one thing at a time, so what order should I do them in? "Do them all, as fast as you can." Fuuuuuuuuck youuuuuuuuuuu.


sarameg - Jan 05, 2018 3:21:43 pm PST #20753 of 30002

I've read through 60 resumes, only about 15 so far are for the position I'm hiring. It's entry level, but so far those that have the key things I'm looking for are over qualified. So I'm looking for "potential." For someone to be my minion and mini-me.

I have no fucking clue what I'm doing. I get that my boss is increasingly trusting me with more managerial responsibilities because she has faith & trust in me, but oh my gawd. I barely have time to keep up with functional work & write up procedures to pass tasks off. Which is the point, I guess. But yeaahhhhrg.


EpicTangent - Jan 05, 2018 3:48:01 pm PST #20754 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Finally caught up in Natter!

In time to say HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Pix & ND!

And -t, you've only worked there for like 5 minutes, with next to no guidance. I'd be amazed if you didn't make a few mistakes. The email writers sound like real jackweasels.


billytea - Jan 05, 2018 3:57:56 pm PST #20755 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Happy anniversary to Pix and ND! Now with added home ownership!


Kat - Jan 05, 2018 4:23:46 pm PST #20756 of 30002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

-t, I'm glad you checked in. Was worrying about you.

sara, a mini-you would be awesome.

I'm not looking forward to going back to school, but I did spend two paid days making really cool things to use to help grade and I am excited.


WindSparrow - Jan 05, 2018 5:09:52 pm PST #20757 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Happy Anniversary, Pix & NoiseDesign!

Good gravy, evaluations... the ones at my job.... eughurchblerg! My supervisor said a bunch of supervisors on her level across the state had begged HR to simplify it because it was too complicated. So HR redesigned it. There are now more categories of blather and the corporatespeak is even more impenetrable. If it isn't actuated syngery, it's synergistic actuation. And there is no way to delineate how well a person does at any particular task. The only thing worse than trying to someone else's is trying to do my own.


Jesse - Jan 05, 2018 5:14:43 pm PST #20758 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

OMG, I'm so cold you guys. A hockey game was maybe not the best choice for a frigid night? It was fun, though.


SuziQ - Jan 05, 2018 5:31:26 pm PST #20759 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

With the work merger, I'll have to learn a new performances system and use corporate speak if I end up with a new manager.

I, like many of us here, hate to ask for help. But with everything on my plate right now, I've been asking for help. And getting help. Yet I'm still overwhelmed. I have a crap ton to get done this weekend and I have not one clue how any of it will happen.