Sail, I'm so sorry. Doctors ideas of "quality of life" can be very different from yours and your dad's. Don't let them push you into anything he doesn't want to do.

Sail, I'm sorry. I'm hoping for the best possible quality of life for your dad.

I'm sorry, Sail. And msbelle.

My in-laws were here today to help unpack. We got a whole lot of stuff done. The TV is on the wall! We have a new shower curtain that is hung, bookcases are ready for books, and so on. This also meant that my m-i-l, despite my telling her that I could organize the books, shelved my Star Trek books without any order, so that Classic Trek is mixed with NextGen is mixed with DS9. I had to stop myself from fixing it three times while she was here.

I'm so sorry, Sail.

All my love, Sail. And lots of peace~ma.

msbelle, it's so hard. It hurts.

I'm so sorry, Sail. May your remaining time bring peace and comfort to you and your family.

Lots of things-working-out~ma, Callaluna.

Indeed! May it go better than anticipated.

He's close to 18, so unsurprising, but damn.

It being anticipated doesn't really make it any easier. Hugs.

I'm doing my best to protect myself from news and things political, while part of me wants to be all gung ho make it right activist. Fortunately I am super busy so able to avoid fairly well.

I'm sorry, SailAweigh. I hope they can make your father comfortable.

Msbelle, I'm sorry about your kitty.

I'm sorry Sail.

msbelle, I'm sorry about your kitty.

Callaluna, I hope court goes as easily and smoothly as possible for you.

I need to be scarce on FB for the time being.

I'm barely on FB anyway, but yeah, I need to limit my time there right now. And I probably limit my time on Twitter. On the one hand, there's good information being shared there. On the other hand, pacing things so I don't collapse in a heap of rage and despair is probably a good idea, too.

I say we celebrate. We celebrate every joyful moment that we can bear to. We celebrate each other. We celebrate victories miniscule and galactic. We celebrate our own worth and we celebrate the worth of every member of the human race.

WindSparrow, I love you. Thank you for writing this.

Thanks for the birthday wishes.

I opened my presents, and my aunt got me some new art supplies that I wanted, so now I'm drawing and figuring out how these pens work. (They're brush pens, and they can be used sort of like watercolor, but there's a definite learning curve here.) So, that's a nice distraction.

My Facebook feed is pretty much fine. I really don't know anyone who voted for Trump. I know a couple of people who were really into Bernie, and I'm not totally sure who they voted for in the general election, but one lives in a state where it really doesn't matter, and the other lives in PA and is horrified by Trump, so, I really don't have anything to block.

Haven't seen anything on Twitter so far, but I've been being kind of careful there. Last time I tried talking about refugees, I got a Holocaust denier responding.

Oh, Sail, I'm so sorry. I'm hoping for a smooth transition for your father.

Callaluna, good luck in court!