You're nice, and you're funny and you don't smoke, and okay, werewolf, but that's not all the time. I mean, three days out of the month, I'm not much fun to be around, either.

Willow ,'Get It Done'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Dec 11, 2017 12:54:05 pm PST #19754 of 30002
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Belated Birthday Consuela! Gary's birthday was yesterday, as well.


-t - Dec 11, 2017 1:04:23 pm PST #19755 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Not weird, Epic.


Jesse - Dec 11, 2017 2:38:13 pm PST #19756 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Jesse, you're coming to San Diego on Christmas? Just a stop on your way somewhere, or will you be a while?

I'm going to stay with my uncle and aunt in Escondido for a few days (with my mother, too!).

Is it weird that I'm comforted by Jesse and Consuela not wanting to be home for Christmas this year, so I can stop thinking I'm being over-sensitive because I don't want to be home for Christmas this year?

I say not weird! It's the grief version of wearing a rubber chicken on your head, no? NotFG.


hippocampus - Dec 11, 2017 2:46:51 pm PST #19757 of 30002
not your mom's socks.

Belated Happy Birthday, Consuela - And bon voyage.


EpicTangent - Dec 11, 2017 3:13:22 pm PST #19758 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I'm going to stay with my uncle and aunt in Escondido for a few days (with my mother, too!).

Assuming I don't leave town (which is how it's looking at present), let me know if you'd like grab lunch or something while you're here. I'm about 20-25 minutes from Esco.

I say not weird! It's the grief version of wearing a rubber chicken on your head, no? NotFG.

Shitty rubber chicken we got this year. It is nice to feel understood, though.

And Happy Belated, Consuela. Also Happy Trails!


EpicTangent - Dec 11, 2017 3:17:43 pm PST #19759 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

And I just remembered, Escondido is where I found that Cowgirl Store on your birthday a couple years ago!


Jesse - Dec 11, 2017 4:36:42 pm PST #19760 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Too funny! I don't know if I'll be able to break free from family, but will let you know!


Atropa - Dec 11, 2017 5:23:52 pm PST #19761 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Belated happy birthday, Consuela! May the trip be fun and stress free!


Atropa - Dec 11, 2017 5:24:36 pm PST #19762 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

ION, I have successfully set up my new InstantPot and done the "cooking water" test. Now to find low carb recipes.


WindSparrow - Dec 11, 2017 5:35:36 pm PST #19763 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

The First Christmas after a loss is a fine time to totally break up tradition and habit by travel or other means. When my dad passed, we did not go anywhere, but rather than getting the old fake tree and family ornaments down from the attic. We bought a real tree, and all new ornaments. (the next year, we both old and new ornaments on the old tree.)