'Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy.' 'Today, we were kidnapped by hill folk never to be seen again. It was the best day ever.'

Jayne ,'Safe'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 27, 2017 4:01:42 pm PDT #17121 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

No idea on the fish oil. I wouldn't think so, but I could very easy be wrong.

"I've got to go -- talk to you later!!"

Yes, must remember that gambit! Good one.


sarameg - Sep 27, 2017 4:24:13 pm PDT #17122 of 30002

Yeargh. So I keep a trash can for recycling upside down because it has no lid. Flipped it, filled it, went to pull it into alley. Smashed a lot of slugs with bare hands in process of grabbing it. Fllggggggglllshitewwwwwwwwww.


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2017 4:29:21 pm PDT #17123 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

hivemind question - would taking fish oil capsules before fasting blood work screw up my lipid count?

I would think no, if you take them daily.


Dana - Sep 27, 2017 4:33:40 pm PDT #17124 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

In the interests of not stirring up shit on FB, can I say that it drives me round the bend to have people protesting the recent displays of whatever you want to call it, but who were totally fine with traumatic brain injuries and players who abuse women?


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2017 5:29:44 pm PDT #17125 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Achievement unlocked! Halloween costume (which in reality I am going to wear EVERY DAMN DAY): an honest-to-god UNICORN ONESIE. [link]


sarameg - Sep 27, 2017 5:38:06 pm PDT #17126 of 30002

I love my boss. After 2 days of hell at work, she posted on my slug massacre that me calling in sick would make sense. Hah.


msbelle - Sep 27, 2017 6:11:47 pm PDT #17127 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

love it Steph. This is the one I am thinking of getting. [link]


Consuela - Sep 27, 2017 6:16:37 pm PDT #17128 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

In the interests of not stirring up shit on FB, can I say that it drives me round the bend to have people protesting the recent displays of whatever you want to call it, but who were totally fine with traumatic brain injuries and players who abuse women?

I suspect that will stir up shit. You're absolutely correct, but yes, there will be shit.


Nilly - Sep 27, 2017 10:22:18 pm PDT #17129 of 30002
Swouncing

Um, I'm not entirely sure if the Natter thread even is the place for this (not that I have any idea where is - Delurking, maybe? When it opens again next week?), and I already apologize that it's once again in a skipping-lots-while-ignoring-ongoing-conversations-and-poking-my-head-for-a-short-time manner, but it's that time of year again, and, yeah, still in a risk of sounding a bit strange:

On Friday evening (as most of you clever people probably already know) starts the Jewish holiday of 'Yom Kippur', which means 'Day of Atonement'.

This is a day of soul searching, of trying to better define our faults to ourselves, and try to accept it upon ourselves to become, at least a little, better people. A day of repenting past wrongs we did, looking and finding it in our hearts to forgive wrongs done to us, and trying to remember to learn from this process in the rest of the days of the year. The holiest day of the year for practicing Jews.

On a rough division, there are two kinds of wrongs people can do: against G-d, and hurting their fellow human beings. In Jewish tradition, if the person committing a sin against G-d is truly sorry for what they did, repenting and taking it upon themselves to try and avoid repeating it, G-d forgives those sins.

The deeds which hurt other people, though, are not so 'easily' and personally forgiven. If somebody did anything to harm another person, they would not be able to cleanse themselves from that deed, no matter how much they'd pray and be sorry and repent and try to do good in the future, unless they make amends with the person who was hurt by that deed. As long as peace between people is not achieved, the 'sin', so to speak, is not 'erased from the books' above.

Regardless of the date in the year, I'd hate to think I'd offended somebody here (or everywhere else, for that matter). I don't think that the attempts of becoming a better person than one already is, is something that needs a date or a certain holiday for it, of course. It's just that, for me, having a certain day in the year to stop my daily runnings around, and think of nothing else but the really important things, is a good reminder of the order of priorities I'd like to have in my life.

So, since Saturday will be, for me, this day of soul-searching, of trying to create a new start in my on-going effort of 'becoming a good human being, or at least a slightly better one', I would like to ask all of you here, if I offended anybody, or hurt any of you lovely people, to tell me about it, and give me the opportunity to apologize, fix it if possible, and also learn from my mistakes, and try to not repeat them (there are so many new ones to practice, why repeat old ones, you know?).

In case I offended anybody, and can't communicate directly with them about it (for whatever reason, especially with my ongoing absebce from the computer in the last few - I'm not even sure how to call it, years? ice-ages?), I can already say that I'm truly sorry. I can honestly say that I didn't mean to - you're all so considerate and thoughtful and generally all-around lovely, that there's absolutely no room for such a thing here. However, I might have had a slip of a keyboard, or mistaken somebody's intentions, or many other possible so forths. Y'all are so understanding, you probably tried to find excuses for me and didn't take offense anyway, but I want to make sure, all the same.

Please don't get me wrong - I'm definitely not trying to go around in a 'holier-than-thou' show off, or force my personal beliefs on others, or make statements which may be understood as criticizing anybody else's beliefs (or lack thereof) and way of living. If anything, being around here, among such a rich versatile group of kind and clever people, has exposed me to a lot more ways of choosing to lead one's life than I've ever had a chance to see before, and has shown me much more of the beauty and richness that is the world we live in.

[Edit: this is especially true this year, with my oh-so-short time-not-in-front-of-students-or-kids, computer time and internet access, which gave way for too many opportunities to unintentionally miss stuff or seem to ignore (undeliberately!) people or their posts.

Sometimes in absence you can hurt people just as much as when you're present. Or even more so, only differently. And at the same time, you guys are always so there-for-anybody-who-needs (including little me - even when I don't get to get to the computer, I still know that you're there, that no matter what, if I ask, you're there for me, even after all my absence and lack of giving back).

So this is a chance to also post: Thank you.]


-t - Sep 28, 2017 1:35:50 am PDT #17130 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Nilly! Always good to see your font. An easy fast to you.

Dana, it's almost like the people who are offended by anthem kneeling are in favor if TBI and domestic abuse. Professional athletes are entertainers, after all, not actual human beings.