It's good to have cargo. Makes us a target for every other scavenger out there, though, but sometimes that's fun too.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Sep 19, 2017 10:16:48 am PDT #16787 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Maybe they mean cologne? Like, scent-free?

Oh, please let this be the answer.


-t - Sep 19, 2017 10:34:18 am PDT #16788 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aha, it's a city! I think. [link]


Consuela - Sep 19, 2017 10:54:44 am PDT #16789 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Maria, you are absolutely right on the burden of dealing with other mourners. Family isn't too bad, but there's a lot of performative grief that is being laid on my sister & nieces by people who barely knew A, and it's so hard on them. I get the impulse, but seriously, do people not understand basic courtesy?


Connie Neil - Sep 19, 2017 11:17:32 am PDT #16790 of 30002
brillig

I get the impulse, but seriously, do people not understand basic courtesy?

Sure, but the outer tier of mourners are there for the drama and the future gossip of critiquing the performance. "So-and-so certainly didn't seem that upset." "Oh, I know. I wonder . . . "


Amy - Sep 19, 2017 11:37:54 am PDT #16791 of 30002
Because books.

Why is Boreanaz playing a SEAL so surprising, Tom?

Well, the Steely Dan album is lousy, too.

::gasps aloud::

::clutches Steely Dan closer to adoring heart::

Mourning is such a *production* in this culture. I hope it eases up for you and your family, Consuela.


shrift - Sep 19, 2017 11:43:33 am PDT #16792 of 30002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

got huffy that one time I publically called the Daily Dot the Daily Mail of fandom (THIS MADE ME SO HAPPY)

Cackling and mentally sending you emoji smoochies.


Amy - Sep 19, 2017 11:43:41 am PDT #16793 of 30002
Because books.

Hey, the internets tell me it's Talk Like a Pirate Day! Arrr.


Hil R. - Sep 19, 2017 11:44:23 am PDT #16794 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Sure, but the outer tier of mourners are there for the drama and the future gossip of critiquing the performance. "So-and-so certainly didn't seem that upset." "Oh, I know. I wonder . . . "

I remember my mom getting all flustered about the house being neat when we were sitting shiva.


Connie Neil - Sep 19, 2017 11:48:15 am PDT #16795 of 30002
brillig

::clutches Steely Dan closer to adoring heart::

t clutches with Amy


-t - Sep 19, 2017 11:54:09 am PDT #16796 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

there's a lot of performative grief that is being laid on my sister & nieces by people who barely knew A, and it's so hard on them.

Ugh. Fucking people. I'm so sorry, Consuela. Just grieving is exhausting, having to deal with other people is really too much.