Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 09, 2017 1:23:55 pm PDT #15140 of 30002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Yeah, two apartments ago I got the manager's permission and painted both bedrooms a sea foam green, then moved out about 2 years later. It was still worth the effort to have walls that made me feel calm and happy.


beekaytee - Aug 09, 2017 1:25:48 pm PDT #15141 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Veggie tots could be life-changing. Must investigate.

I need these in my life, wherever I may find them.

And, cute sandals, Sparky. I have mad thong-style shoe envy. I've never been able to wear them for some reason, curse my short, square feet.


beekaytee - Aug 09, 2017 1:28:56 pm PDT #15142 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

-t is wise. And I agree. Making your home into the environment you want isn't stupid at all.

Y'all know how I've struggled with my apartment for...let's face it...forever. Having the place in a condition that I can now feel good about has been a relief beyond the telling of it. Like, I never realized.

So yeah, I've replaced things, and fixed the small stuff myself, a few times. Totally worth it. Though I can also totally relate to feeling like it was kind of stupid, more than once. In the end though. Totally worth it.


Jesse - Aug 09, 2017 1:33:37 pm PDT #15143 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Normal is a relief, although my stomach is still being a jerk. It needs to get the message that everything is A-OK.

Yeah, it would have almost been better to have obvious gall stones and immediate surgery. (I will note I'm pretty sure at one point my mother was told she did NOT have gall stones, and she still did.)

Those all seem like reasonable investments in your happiness, and a hell of a lot less pain/expense than moving.

Agreed.

You do not have a fiduciary responsibility to turn a profit on your life.

Ooh, that is good.


Steph L. - Aug 09, 2017 1:38:39 pm PDT #15144 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

(I will note I'm pretty sure at one point my mother was told she did NOT have gall stones, and she still did.)

My primary care doctor did say that the gastrointestinal doctor might run more tests that could show other gallbladder stuff. Like, there's gallbladder *sludge*, which doesn't sound awesome.


Sheryl - Aug 09, 2017 1:54:04 pm PDT #15145 of 30002
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Yay for normal! Boo for jerky stomach!

Why does this week feel like it's dragging? (Probably post-vacation blahs)


Scrappy - Aug 09, 2017 2:18:11 pm PDT #15146 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Teppy, I have a medical question. My doctor left her practice, which I did not find out until I went to pick up my refills. I made an appointment to go in and meet the NEW doc and pick up my files (since we're moving). I go in next Thursday.

I am on Cymbalta, but I've wanted to go back to Lexapro anyway. I have Lexapro on hand and have been alternating the last few days I have left of Cymbalta (I have one left) with the Lexapro. I have noticed no ill effects, but am I damaging myself beyond repair?


Steph L. - Aug 09, 2017 2:38:52 pm PDT #15147 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have Lexapro on hand and have been alternating the last few days I have left of Cymbalta (I have one left) with the Lexapro. I have noticed no ill effects, but am I damaging myself beyond repair?

You are not. In fact, some doctors, cross-taper like you did, to get a patient off one antidepressant and onto another.


sarameg - Aug 09, 2017 3:38:43 pm PDT #15148 of 30002

I'm sorry you don't have a mutant gallstone egg like me? My officemate had the sludge, but hers had actually escaped and it sounded horrific, nothing like what you are experiencing. If you have the sludge, sounds like it contained, at least. I can't believe I'm wishing you sludge, but better than a pointlessly over dramatic GI tract..I guess?


meara - Aug 09, 2017 4:57:56 pm PDT #15149 of 30002

Random question:

Went to the Chiro today, and they had emailed me three things about insurance and claims and whatnot, and I was v. confused. So I printed them out (including the bill) and brought them in to try to find out.

...when I handed it to the receptionist, she was like "hmm..." and then went "OH!" Because the bill wasn't mine. Although the email it was attached to was addressed to me, the bill was for someone else (and had her name and address, I just somehow hadn't noticed). HIPAA violation y/n?