Wash: Well, I wash my hands of it. It's a hopeless case. I'll read a nice poem at the funeral. Something with imagery. Zoe: You could lock the door and keep the power-hungry maniac at bay. Wash: Oh, no, I'm starting to like this poetry idea now. Here lies my beloved Zoe, my autumn flower, somewhat less attractive now she's all corpsified and gross...

'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Aug 09, 2017 1:33:37 pm PDT #15143 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Normal is a relief, although my stomach is still being a jerk. It needs to get the message that everything is A-OK.

Yeah, it would have almost been better to have obvious gall stones and immediate surgery. (I will note I'm pretty sure at one point my mother was told she did NOT have gall stones, and she still did.)

Those all seem like reasonable investments in your happiness, and a hell of a lot less pain/expense than moving.

Agreed.

You do not have a fiduciary responsibility to turn a profit on your life.

Ooh, that is good.


Steph L. - Aug 09, 2017 1:38:39 pm PDT #15144 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

(I will note I'm pretty sure at one point my mother was told she did NOT have gall stones, and she still did.)

My primary care doctor did say that the gastrointestinal doctor might run more tests that could show other gallbladder stuff. Like, there's gallbladder *sludge*, which doesn't sound awesome.


Sheryl - Aug 09, 2017 1:54:04 pm PDT #15145 of 30002
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Yay for normal! Boo for jerky stomach!

Why does this week feel like it's dragging? (Probably post-vacation blahs)


Scrappy - Aug 09, 2017 2:18:11 pm PDT #15146 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Teppy, I have a medical question. My doctor left her practice, which I did not find out until I went to pick up my refills. I made an appointment to go in and meet the NEW doc and pick up my files (since we're moving). I go in next Thursday.

I am on Cymbalta, but I've wanted to go back to Lexapro anyway. I have Lexapro on hand and have been alternating the last few days I have left of Cymbalta (I have one left) with the Lexapro. I have noticed no ill effects, but am I damaging myself beyond repair?


Steph L. - Aug 09, 2017 2:38:52 pm PDT #15147 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have Lexapro on hand and have been alternating the last few days I have left of Cymbalta (I have one left) with the Lexapro. I have noticed no ill effects, but am I damaging myself beyond repair?

You are not. In fact, some doctors, cross-taper like you did, to get a patient off one antidepressant and onto another.


sarameg - Aug 09, 2017 3:38:43 pm PDT #15148 of 30002

I'm sorry you don't have a mutant gallstone egg like me? My officemate had the sludge, but hers had actually escaped and it sounded horrific, nothing like what you are experiencing. If you have the sludge, sounds like it contained, at least. I can't believe I'm wishing you sludge, but better than a pointlessly over dramatic GI tract..I guess?


meara - Aug 09, 2017 4:57:56 pm PDT #15149 of 30002

Random question:

Went to the Chiro today, and they had emailed me three things about insurance and claims and whatnot, and I was v. confused. So I printed them out (including the bill) and brought them in to try to find out.

...when I handed it to the receptionist, she was like "hmm..." and then went "OH!" Because the bill wasn't mine. Although the email it was attached to was addressed to me, the bill was for someone else (and had her name and address, I just somehow hadn't noticed). HIPAA violation y/n?


Pix - Aug 09, 2017 5:06:40 pm PDT #15150 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

Not stupid. Making your environment comfortable and pleasant seems worthwhile to me. If it turns out to be more of an expense than an investment, that is okay.

This! We have been in this house (rental) for 11 years and invested a fair amount of our own money into it. So worth it for it to be a space you feel happy in. We are now at the point of potentially investing in a new water heater. The old one still works, but it's never held enough water to fill the bath tub, which is a major thing for my back and anxiety. Our landlord (who is a friend) doesn't have the money since she had to put $28K on a credit card last year to rebuild the bathroom (remember our black mold fiasco?), and we can't move (too many pets for anyone to rent to us) or buy (too expensive in LA)...so new water heater. Might be a thing.

You do not have a fiduciary responsibility to turn a profit on your life.

I LOVE this.


Vortex - Aug 09, 2017 6:58:19 pm PDT #15151 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

...when I handed it to the receptionist, she was like "hmm..." and then went "OH!" Because the bill wasn't mine. Although the email it was attached to was addressed to me, the bill was for someone else (and had her name and address, I just somehow hadn't noticed). HIPAA violation y/n?

yes.


aurelia - Aug 09, 2017 7:41:52 pm PDT #15152 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Trump and Kim - what happens when two narcissistic madmen with nukes start posturing and grunting at each other like gorillas and neither can back down? We'll soon find out, on the next episode of "America: Meltdown"! I'm alternating between being annoyed with both of them and being terrified.

I think our best bet would be to convince all the cable companies to give them each their own cable channel on the condition that they step down from office and agree to remain private citizens for the rest of their lives.

You do not have a fiduciary responsibility to turn a profit on your life.

Very wise.