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Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - May 24, 2017 2:57:33 am PDT #11833 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Hello, 7AM meeting. My old nemesis.

Steph, I meant to say thanks for letting me know I wasn't necessarily flipping out. But at that point I tried to get to bed early, which failed.


Tom Scola - May 24, 2017 5:34:54 am PDT #11834 of 30002
hwæt

Well, that was a not exactly productive ninety minutes of me crying straight through my therapy session.

I suck at this. It's TOO HARD. I'm stymied.


Steph L. - May 24, 2017 5:54:15 am PDT #11835 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Tom, I totally get it. And -- I'm not sure the right way to say this, but I'll give it a shot -- it was never going to be easy, or even moderately hard. Because what you're dealing with is huge and awful. It was always going to be really hard. (I suck as a motivational speaker.)

I think it's worth it, though. Even though it's hard. But I *am* sorry it's so hard.

I'm not sure you can suck at therapy. If you're showing up, you're not sucking at it.

If it helps at all to hear this, I understand how you feel. I have some idea of how much this sucks. I care about you, and I'm in your corner, for what that's worth.


Laura - May 24, 2017 6:39:31 am PDT #11836 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry it is so hard, Tom. If only I had words that would make a difference.


Jessica - May 24, 2017 7:07:44 am PDT #11837 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I'm sorry it is so hard, Tom. If only I had words that would make a difference.

What Laura said.


Gudanov - May 24, 2017 7:16:07 am PDT #11838 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

Ah man, I'm sorry Tom. That sounds awfully rough.


Dana - May 24, 2017 7:22:05 am PDT #11839 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

It does suck, Tom. I'm sorry. But it doesn't mean you suck.


Dana - May 24, 2017 7:22:34 am PDT #11840 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

And unrelated, these people on Hoarders have brought in a medium to help find mortgage papers in their dead mother's house.


smonster - May 24, 2017 7:46:15 am PDT #11841 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

If you're showing up, you're not sucking at it.

What Steph said.

Dana, you must report back on whether they find them!


Dana - May 24, 2017 8:29:37 am PDT #11842 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Dana, you must report back on whether they find them!

The medium told them they would not. Or, rather, the necklace that they were using to communicate with their mother moved side-to-side, indicating that there were no papers.

Fortunately for my peace of mind, they did clean out the house anyway. It seems likely that their mother, who clearly had issues, either lied or was mistaken about the papers.