See how I'm not punching him? I think I've grown.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 01, 2017 10:42:54 am PDT #10685 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

PantsGate 2017 Update: no one has ordered pants yet. I am deeply confused about that, because after Interfering Aunt stirred up shit, one SiL replied that pants had been ordered. That was before Easter. But whatever. One of the bros said he'll order them tonight.

Soon, a nation will be able to rest easy, secure in the knowledge that Jack will have new pants.


brenda m - May 01, 2017 10:44:21 am PDT #10686 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Amazing, Brenda! It is a weirdly small world.

D'oh! That's why I was there in December or whenever that was.


Amy - May 01, 2017 10:53:05 am PDT #10687 of 30002
Because books.

Puppy ~ma to brenda!

And pants ~ma to Jack!

flea, that sounds like an incredibly cool summer for Casper.


-t - May 01, 2017 11:04:25 am PDT #10688 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Go Casper! That's awesome.

Hm, maybe someone said pants were ordered just to shut Interfering Aunt up? I am riveted to this saga.

I feel so lucky that my great grandmother, who is the only member of my family who has suffered from dementia, so far, during my lifetime, while she never knew who I was was always glad to see me. Possibly because I strongly resemble her sister. Not that she ever thought I was her sister, but she always thought I was someone she knew - a neighbor, her friend from school, somebody. So much more pleasant for me than my poor uncle who reminded her of someone she was mad at half the time. Anyway, what brought that to mind is that she clearly did not think of herself as her actual age, or even as an adult, a lot of the time and I can see how that kind of confusion might lead to inappropriate comments.

I have been told that there is one thermostat for our whole building (except the server room that has its own air conditioner, if course), which is a warehouse with parts of it made into offices. Some places are always cold, some are always hot, and that's just kind of how it is. Fortunately, we all have company fleeces from working the Outlet Sale after Thanksgiving, so it is easy to throw another layer on if you are heading to a meeting where it is cold.


Jesse - May 01, 2017 11:36:05 am PDT #10689 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That's so awesome for Casper!

D'oh! That's why I was there in December or whenever that was.

Oh yeah! It is all coming back to me. That seems like a really long time ago, though.


Connie Neil - May 01, 2017 11:41:18 am PDT #10690 of 30002
brillig

I was perusing the official state traffic website again, zooming in on roads and highways, and I looked at the route to IKEA. As I zoomed in, I saw that UDOT helpfully provides a map of the interior of IKEA's building as well, with the restrooms and cafe marked. I knew it was a big building, but I didn't think it needed official traffic guidance. However, they did not show how heavy the congestion was at the Swedish meatballs or cashiers.


Jessica - May 01, 2017 11:43:48 am PDT #10691 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

However, they did not show how heavy the congestion was at the Swedish meatballs or cashiers.

See, that would be useful information!


Laura - May 01, 2017 11:53:35 am PDT #10692 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

The facility has a support group once a month for family of people with dementia, and I'm trying to round up Tim and the bros and SiLs to go. I think it will be helpful.

That would be a very good plan. Even one or two helpful hints from experts could make a big difference.


sumi - May 01, 2017 12:11:08 pm PDT #10693 of 30002
Art Crawl!!!

Brenda - that puppy is adorable. Fingers crossed for you.


Dana - May 01, 2017 12:15:58 pm PDT #10694 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

My grandfather had a bit of the inappropriateness with his dementia, which was definitely depressing, because he was never that kind of person. Fortunately, once he was in the facility, I don't think he had the kind of meanness that can develop. He was just an escape artist.

I am steroided. It is not a procedure with any dignity, I will say that. Just envision getting a shot above your tailbone, and go from there.

Twilight sedation throughout, which mostly meant I could answer when they asked if something hurt. But the most painful part of the process was the IV, and now I just lie on the couch for the rest of the day.