Stephanie, I'm sad for your loss. It's good to see you here, and though I don't say it much on Facebook I am very proud of the work you do. Thinking of what you do always reminds me that the multitudes of immigrants and refugees are not faceless masses but human beings and human families.

amych, good luck at that holiday gathering.

I wish you all love, glitter, and gingham.

Oh, that's wonderful, I'm gonna steal. So much love for your textile adventures, amych!

Stephanie, I'm sorry about the miscarriage. I also love keeping up with you, and seeing your kids grow, on FB. I'm so glad your relationship's going well and bringing you happiness! And, thank you, for the work you do.

I've got to write a year wrap-up because it's been a pretty big year of change for me. But am too tired right now.

Stephanie, so sorry to hear that. But so good to see your pixels here! And glad that even if this moment is tough, you've got good things and people in your life.

Amych, this year "racist uncle" will be played by my brother. Joy. (Also there was an article in slate I think the other day asking why is it always the "uncle" who is racist? And it made me laugh a little)

Stephanie, I am so sorry, but you are also such an amazing person. You've weathered so many ups and downs with quiet strength and fortitude and just... wow. I am glad that there are so many blessings in your life, even though I know you must be mourning this loss.

What Burrell said. I'm sorry for your loss but glad to see that there are bright spaces too.

Stephanie, my condolences on your loss. May the new year be one tinged with far less pain.

I'm sorry about the miscarriage, Stephanie. But I'm glad you have people around you to care for you.

Stephanie, I'm so sorry about the miscarriage.

thank you Suzi for the snowflake.

and

thank you secret santa for the Scentsy. I had no tree smelling ones and since we only have artificial trees, they are very welcome.