Murk: But you're a God! The Sacred Glorificus! Glory: I'm a God in exile. Far from the Hellfires of Home and sharing my body with an enemy that stabs my boys in their fleshy little stomachs!

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 27, 2015 9:18:13 am PDT #4231 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Do kids seem to have WAY MORE homework than we did when we were young? I graduated in 1991, and we didn't have anything to do at home until 3rd grade, never did anything in the summer, and except for big projects or art classes, I really don't remember spending very much time on it.

My godson, who is 13, has so much homework THIS SUMMER. Homework in every subject. Math every day. 2 different book presentations. A presentation on the Civil War. It seems like so much! I think he now HATES reading, and he used to love it.


Zenkitty - Aug 27, 2015 9:18:43 am PDT #4232 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Burrell, what Maria said.

Self, what Maria said.


Jesse - Aug 27, 2015 9:23:29 am PDT #4233 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Do kids seem to have WAY MORE homework than we did when we were young?

Yes. Even in high school, I never minded getting detention because it meant I could get a lot, if not all, of my homework done and leave the books at school.

Under details, it said "1:02 PM Undeliverable - Incorrect Address." I was here at that address at 1 p.m. Am I supposed to do something or hope USPS figures it out?

Seems worth calling to me, but I don't mind those kinds of calls.


Dana - Aug 27, 2015 9:24:40 am PDT #4234 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Great, I'm getting volunteered for yet another meeting this afternoon. Die, meetings, die.


-t - Aug 27, 2015 9:33:27 am PDT #4235 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Those people don't exist. I promise.

Yeah, I probably looked like one of those kids from the outside (outside my family, that is) but I was no picnic for my parents

1:02 PM Undeliverable - Incorrect Address

Maybe it means the deliverer was at the incorrect address?

Just finished my nachos. End of the month has become chock full of issues and salespeople urgently wanting information so they can justify why they aren't meeting their goals this month...

Maybe my hot dogs will be more delicious. Still kinda warm...


SuziQ - Aug 27, 2015 9:34:19 am PDT #4236 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Save me from well meaning neighbors. Jack is doing well in his obedience training, but he still barks are people not in this family. Sometimes it is warning, sometimes it is demanding (they gave me a couple treats, I want a million) and sometimes it is aggressive. We are working with his trainer on different techniques to help him and he is making progress.

Today I took him in the backyard and one neighbor was in her yard cleaning up. He yipped at her and then when she popped her head over the fence he went nuts. I didn't have him on a leash, so we came back in to get one. She came out to the open space with us and kept getting too close to him, saying she understood, he was still a puppy and still learning and I kept saying we needed to work on a training technique that involved distance. He couldn't calm down, so we ended up coming back inside. The neighbor wasn't upset, but we want his training sessions to be more success than failure and this felt like a big failure.


DavidS - Aug 27, 2015 9:35:43 am PDT #4237 of 30003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I mostly brag about Emmett and Matilda because it feels a bit disloyal to air their failings. But I promise they both have generated a goodly number of hair pulling moments. Which has inspired less than ideal parenting from me involving yelling, cutting snark or deep blasts of impatience.

However, all the pictures of them goofing around and cuddling and loving each other are a true and accurate document of their relationship. So they *do* excel at sib love.

But Emmett blew off his classes so hard his second semester of senior year in HS that he almost failed to graduate and had his college acceptance rescinded. And when Matilda is not the most delightful stylista and maker of clever objects, she is the whiniest, most super sensitive, indolent, infuriatingly dawdling child that ever slow walked her way to school.


Jesse - Aug 27, 2015 9:37:51 am PDT #4238 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

The non-parenting equivalent of this is people who think I'm "always doing something fun." No. 90% of the time, I'm sitting on my sofa. You just only hear about the other 10%.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 27, 2015 9:38:04 am PDT #4239 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Yes. Even in high school, I never minded getting detention because it meant I could get a lot, if not all, of my homework done and leave the books at school.

I tried to do most of mine in homeroom, lunch, or other classes so I did not have to carry the books home. That sounds bad now.

But so much of BFF's life is just trying to get her kids to do and/or turn in homework, and it seems hard.


DavidS - Aug 27, 2015 9:50:25 am PDT #4240 of 30003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

But so much of BFF's life is just trying to get her kids to do and/or turn in homework, and it seems hard.

Seriously the greatest thing since Pay At The Pump was Emmett's aftercare program where they made everybody do their homework for 45 minutes, so it was already done by the time I picked him up. Which also trained him to just get it done and out of the way and he kept the habit up. Before that we had so many tearful nights of math homework.

Matilda's aftercare also does homework, though it's not quite as dedicated. But she's pretty good about finishing it off when she gets home before dinner.