Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Aug 24, 2015 6:28:34 am PDT #3967 of 30003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Oh, Steph... the continual horror that is other people. Can you kick it to senior management along with the email string showing that you tried?

I documented the hell out of it, and all the emails are in the AMA's tracking system, so they can refer to the emails and see that he's being a special snowflake about his precious baby words. I am hoping SO HARD that senior management is all "Fuck you, buddy; these words are coming out."

I just uploaded the "corrected" document, so from this point on, it's out of my hands. If he continues to complain, it will be to someone who is higher on the food chain than me.

He opened his last email to me with "This is becoming too much work."

You know what would make it easier? If he just accepted your edits.

Right??? This yahoo went through the article and made comments in each paragraph, saying "I accept these minor edits if they are journal policy." Every. Single. Paragraph.


Steph L. - Aug 24, 2015 6:29:58 am PDT #3968 of 30003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

So basically what this guy is saying is that it is more important for him to look smart than to communicate information to his readers.

Yup. But senior management may well change it. I hope SO HARD that they do.

Authors love to give the lowly copyeditors all kinds of shit, and then they suddenly turn into compliant little kittens when senior management tells them to shut the fuck up and do it our way. Amazing.


Strix - Aug 24, 2015 6:30:49 am PDT #3969 of 30003
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Steph, let me just say your rant was awesome!

  • slow clap*

-t, we ought to get the invites any day, so I can go to the website. I know it's not super orthodox.


Hil R. - Aug 24, 2015 6:41:19 am PDT #3970 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

-t, we ought to get the invites any day, so I can go to the website. I know it's not super orthodox.

Do the people who go there tend to keep kosher, or refrain from driving or using electricity on Shabbat? If not, then there probably isn't much of a dress code other than "Don't dress like you're going out clubbing," but more old-fashioned people (like my mother) would say no bare shoulders.

edited to make sense.


Ginger - Aug 24, 2015 6:59:19 am PDT #3971 of 30003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

According to the Atlanta paper, tomorrow is International Waffle Day.

This observance began in Sweden, when people confused "varfrudagen," which celebrates the annunciation, (when the angel Gabriel told Mary she would be the mother of Jesus) with "vaffeldagen," which means Waffle Day.

I just nitpicked the wording on Tennessee's new women's suffrage monument, which is lacking an important comma. I should get over myself.


meara - Aug 24, 2015 7:28:21 am PDT #3972 of 30003

Tennessee's new women's suffrage monument

I read this as women's suffrage MOVEMENT, and was all distressed for a minute that there needed to be a movement anew. Whew.


Strix - Aug 24, 2015 7:37:39 am PDT #3973 of 30003
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hil, some folks keep kosher, and I think few people keep to the Shabbat rules. I think it's on the liberal side of traditional, if that makes sense?

I know the kiddo's fam doesn't keep kosher, except High Holidays - they eat pork and seafood, but won't keep bacon or ham in the house. Eh, whatever!


Hil R. - Aug 24, 2015 7:49:11 am PDT #3974 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Hil, some folks keep kosher, and I think few people keep to the Shabbat rules. I think it's on the liberal side of traditional, if that makes sense?

I'd say err on the side of more modest, then -- at least have your shoulders covered, and skirt about knee-length or longer, and no plunging neckline or anything like that -- but no one's going to get worked up about exactly how long your sleeves are, or if your skirt is an inch too short. You shouldn't have to cover your hair, but there might be a stack of lacy thingies and some bobby pins at the entrance -- just look to see if most of the women are putting those on, and follow their lead.


-t - Aug 24, 2015 8:01:32 am PDT #3975 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Waffle Day sounds good to me.


DavidS - Aug 24, 2015 8:17:38 am PDT #3976 of 30003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

According to the Atlanta paper, tomorrow is International Waffle Day.

And I know there's a Waffle House near your house because Emmett and I went there with you.