Illyria: We cling to what is gone. Is there anything in this life but grief? Wesley: There's love. There's hope...for some. There's hope that you'll find something worthy...that your life will lead you to some joy...that after everything...you can still be surprised. Illyria: Is that enough? Is that enough to live on?

'Shells'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


SailAweigh - Oct 21, 2016 7:16:45 pm PDT #29813 of 30003
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

That was an excellent documentary. I haven't heard much of Hamilton, mainly because I wasn't sure I understood enough of the history to really grasp all the most important parts of the plot. I only knew there was a duel and Hamilton lost. (That, plus, my daughter's Hamilton cousins are somehow related.) Now, I'm really going to have to give the whole thing a listen. I loved Jefferson's passe jazz stylings.


erikaj - Oct 21, 2016 7:18:32 pm PDT #29814 of 30003
Always Anti-fascist!

Oh, you're welcome, Billytea. How can I do otherwise for the man that offered so many thoughts on "iguana style" back in the day?(Sufficient enough that I know that was just chosen as a funny word) Your thoughts about Biyi remind me of when I made my attendant occasionally struggle through "the Vest Ving" except, you know, German)


sarameg - Oct 21, 2016 7:44:18 pm PDT #29815 of 30003

Parents aging is hard. Dad's more klutzy and absentminded professor with people. Mom is having memory issues that while she's voiced them to me, I'm seeing in stark relief in person. I know she's talking to her drs about it, but I'd really like to add my voice in in case they aren't taking her seriously. This is diffferent than her repeating a story cause she's not sure who she has told; this morning, she didn't remember the school by me we drove past last night that we talked extensively about. I gently told her and she said 'I know, this forgetting scares me shitless.'Mom doesn't swear a lot. None of her elder sisters are experiencing this, her dad didn't start having memory issues until late in his eighties.

I don't even know.

I'm glad mom's all 'we're coming again next year' because I'm happy they have finally embraced travel in retirement ( and I no longer have to make the reservations.) but...I probably don't got many more visits left.


erikaj - Oct 21, 2016 8:00:12 pm PDT #29816 of 30003
Always Anti-fascist!

maybe she is vitamin b deficient or something...read that happens sometimes. Not that you shouldn't treasure the moments and so forth...


sarameg - Oct 21, 2016 8:07:18 pm PDT #29817 of 30003

Yeah, I'm clinging to straws and hoping she finds some competent meds in their area. It's a good place to retire boringly, NSM if you've got shit going on.


Hil R. - Oct 21, 2016 9:26:05 pm PDT #29818 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I keep meaning to watch that Ehlers Danlos episode of Grey's, but I haven't had a chance yet.


Consuela - Oct 21, 2016 9:35:22 pm PDT #29819 of 30003
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Yikes, sarameg. My sympathies. It's hard for you and super scary for them, and you hope that at least that fear doesn't show up as anger (as it did for my mother). She will need more support going forward, and patience and understanding.

The Alzheimer's Reading Room has a lot of non-medical support and guidance on how to relate to/work with people with dementia.

I watched the first 20 minutes of the Hamilton doc, but I can't stay up. Instead tonight I went to a live recording of Pop Culture Happy Hour, with special guest Mallory Ortberg! It was hella fun.


Calli - Oct 22, 2016 3:06:19 am PDT #29820 of 30003
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I TiVoed the Hamlton documentary and will be watching it this morning. First, an oil change and grocery shopping. I've been obsessed by the musical since last fall and got the CDs for Christmas.

Sarameg, I hope your mom's memory issues can be easily resolved.


Jesse - Oct 22, 2016 3:20:33 am PDT #29821 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yikes, sarameg. My sympathies. It's hard for you and super scary for them, and you hope that at least that fear doesn't show up as anger (as it did for my mother). She will need more support going forward, and patience and understanding.

Yeah, that. Of course, in my family it was my father with dementia, but my mother was still the angry one....Let's hope it's just sleep apnea or something else that can be fixed.

Instead tonight I went to a live recording of Pop Culture Happy Hour, with special guest Mallory Ortberg! It was hella fun.

Jelly!!


Dana - Oct 22, 2016 3:54:57 am PDT #29822 of 30003
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

billytea, the CD does come with extensive liner notes, but they were also made available as a PDF at some point, so I have that if you need it.