If you want me to leave, you can put your hands on my hot, tight little body and make me.

Spike ,'Get It Done'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sarameg - Aug 30, 2016 5:59:53 pm PDT #26820 of 30003

I have a fucking awful day ahead of me tomorrow. At least my pool is open though a good outdoor Druid swim would be nice. Predict working late because of others fuck ups and being bitter.


Cass - Aug 30, 2016 6:23:51 pm PDT #26821 of 30003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It's pretty much a nightmare right now. My sister is having a breakdown. And I can't have one publicly or even express my rage and my frustration and basically my helplessness on Facebook. Because that isn't what I am using Facebook for this last three weeks. It's a tool.

This is a nightmare and I just want my whole family to wake up and get group texts with pictures of their first day at school and then have the day spent with phones randomly going off because some people don't realize it's a group text and they basically replied all.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 30, 2016 6:34:59 pm PDT #26822 of 30003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Jesus, Cass - that is a total nightmare. Your poor sister. Those poor kids! Holy shit. I'm so, so sorry.


WindSparrow - Aug 30, 2016 9:00:55 pm PDT #26823 of 30003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

It's so hard, Cass. Words cannot express how much I wish your family could wake up from that nightmare.


beth b - Aug 30, 2016 9:34:26 pm PDT #26824 of 30003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Cass , a so sorry. It is just horrible. too much


Shir - Aug 30, 2016 10:55:04 pm PDT #26825 of 30003
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Cass, I'm so sorry that your family is going through this nightmare. You and your family are in my thoughts.


lisah - Aug 31, 2016 1:44:43 am PDT #26826 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

It is a nightmare, Cass. Keeping you all in my thoughts and spreading the word as best I can.


Jesse - Aug 31, 2016 4:33:07 am PDT #26827 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Agreed, Cass, that is a nightmare, and I'm sorry you have to be the strong one.


SuziQ - Aug 31, 2016 5:05:41 am PDT #26828 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Months ago I sat down with my boss to ask for a raise. It finally came through and is effective this week. 5% is nice, I had asked for more, which my managers supported but HR rejected. I guess there is some company limit.

I'm happy this step is done though in notifying me, my manager forwarded the chain of e-mails with the information from HR and it shows that this all could have been done at the beginning of August, but somewhere along the line the approvals got stuck, as in someone didn't realize their approval was needed, so it sat FOR A MONTH.

Still, still, I have a job I like, good co-workers (in addition to my co-workers at home), and 5% is nothing to share a stick at.


Jesse - Aug 31, 2016 6:11:32 am PDT #26829 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Good news, Suzi!

I did phone screens with two candidates at the end of the day yesterday, and they have both emailed thank-you notes! Many of the young people do not bother anymore, and I really appreciate it.