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Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jun 01, 2016 9:26:40 am PDT #22354 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Connie, you can totally do different amounts, and I wouldn't give anything beyond a card to the person you don't know.

Don't think of it as missing a deadline, think of it as underscoring your indispensability to the company!

This reminds me of a funny thing I heard recently from the head of USAID -- they aren't silos, they are cylinders of excellence!

Yipes, shooting at UCLA makes me nervous. DH just texted me, so he's safe.

Phew.


msbelle - Jun 01, 2016 9:28:15 am PDT #22355 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Thank you Burrell. That is good to hear.


Connie Neil - Jun 01, 2016 9:34:00 am PDT #22356 of 30003
brillig

I wouldn't give anything beyond a card to the person you don't know.

Oh, cards! Of course. I am so out of the habit of giving presents outside of "Here, I saw this and thought of you" that I've forgotten presentation options.


Steph L. - Jun 01, 2016 9:36:16 am PDT #22357 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Connie, you can totally do different amounts, and I wouldn't give anything beyond a card to the person you don't know.

Yeah, if it were me, I probably wouldn't even do a card for the person I don't know. I don't think it would be expected of you to give her a gift.

If the graduates do open their gifts at the party, it's not like they'll open gifts that have been grouped by giver (like, "Here are all 3 gifts from Uncle Fester: one for daughter of faux-son, one for son of brother-in-law, and one for graduate #3! Uh-oh, Connie has only provided gifts for 2 of the graduates!"). Gifts tend to be put in loose piles for each recipient, so if you opt to not give a gift to the graduate who you don't know, it certainly won't stand out.


Jesse - Jun 01, 2016 9:40:11 am PDT #22358 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Gifts tend to be put in loose piles for each recipient, so if you opt to not give a gift to the graduate who you don't know, it certainly won't stand out.

Yes, good one.


SuziQ - Jun 01, 2016 9:41:34 am PDT #22359 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Anyone crass enough to ask why person X didn't get a card is the rude one.


Connie Neil - Jun 01, 2016 9:42:32 am PDT #22360 of 30003
brillig

True, the odds of them comparing notes on who gave what are low. But cards are cheap, if Grad #3 is who I think it is, her grand-parents have been friends of mine and Hubby's for decades.


Steph L. - Jun 01, 2016 9:43:32 am PDT #22361 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Which reminds me that we have a graduation gift to get for this weekend. Sheesh, 3 of the niecephews have bought houses in the past several months, 1 had a new baby, and 1 just graduated from high school. Lots to celebrate, and a lot of gift cards. (Tim didn't understand why there aren't baby showers for second babies. "They still need diapers!" he said. So we sent them a Target gift card, but I suggested they buy some chocolate and wine for themselves, too.)


Connie Neil - Jun 01, 2016 10:06:46 am PDT #22362 of 30003
brillig

her grand-parents have been friends of mine and Hubby's for decades.

I just realized how old that statement makes me feel. Bad enough that the children of people I've known forever are graduates, but the grand-children of people I've known forever are graduates--and not even the oldest grand-children!

30 years should not pass so stealthily.


Zenkitty - Jun 01, 2016 10:34:56 am PDT #22363 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Don't think of it as missing a deadline, think of it as underscoring your indispensability to the company!

Ugh, I don't want to be indispensable, I want a vacation! Also "I am the only one who can do this and I was on vacation" is no excuse for missing a deadline!