I'm a big girl. Just tell me.

Inara ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Connie Neil - May 20, 2016 10:37:40 am PDT #21771 of 30003
brillig

Talky meat!

I had to pull in the reins on a young man who was indulging in mutual trash talk with another guy in a neighboring cubicle. He's not a bad guy, a bit overly macho, well-versed in the Utah culture of "Men are appointed of God to be in charge of the household." I, however, have Mom status. His trash talk went into a gay-slur direction, which surprised an outraged "Dude!" out of me. He looked shocked and said "What!" "The gay jokes are getting old." He looked utterly baffled, then chastened, "I'll do better."

Unfortunately, he has no clue as to *why* he shouldn't be making these kinds of jokes, but better he be mad at me than HR get involved--a point I haven't mentioned yet. Sadly, I am apparently no longer "fun". I think I'll cope. Because the next step is telling my manager, who will get to have a talk about basic procedure in a workspace.


NoiseDesign - May 20, 2016 10:38:14 am PDT #21772 of 30003
Our wings are not tired

Negative. I am a meat popcicle.

I think you might need to turn on the heat.


Dana - May 20, 2016 10:42:51 am PDT #21773 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I am waiting on my coworker to finish her art of something so I can do mine. I have asked her about it repeatedly. I am worried about my chances of leaving on time.


msbelle - May 20, 2016 11:09:23 am PDT #21774 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I'm seeing different stories, but all seem to say suspect in custody.


Liese S. - May 20, 2016 12:30:01 pm PDT #21775 of 30003
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Sheesh, msbelle, hope you're safe.

I'm fictional, but apparently not perimenopausal yet according to the last hormone screening I did, which is sort of disappointing, really. I'm not planning on using my reproductive organs, other than, you know, the external ones recreationally, so I'm good to shut the systems down at any point now.

Y'all, what am I doing arguing with this person on facebook? On someone else's page, even? Do I think I'm going to convince him of the error of his ways, or make him understand the privilege he's currently enjoying? No. Then why am I spending my extremely limited energy on him?


msbelle - May 20, 2016 12:33:14 pm PDT #21776 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Not near me Liese, near the White House.


Beverly - May 20, 2016 12:33:49 pm PDT #21777 of 30003
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Sean! And with the Corbin Dallas reference!


Liese S. - May 20, 2016 12:39:00 pm PDT #21778 of 30003
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh, gotcha, missed that.


Sheryl - May 20, 2016 1:00:20 pm PDT #21779 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

So the last two days were pretty nice, weather-wise. No rain, temps in the 70s. So what's predicted for the weekend? Rain, and temps in the high 50s/low 60s.


shrift - May 20, 2016 2:01:04 pm PDT #21780 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'm working from home today and I got to sleep in, which is delightful because I had to get up at 5:30a on Wednesday and 4:30a yesterday.

I feel like I actually got a lot of work done this week and I handled a flurry of escalations all morning, so I've slowly been losing motivation to be productive as the day goes on.