So there is something I can do, besides scream like a woman?

Wesley ,'Chosen'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Mar 23, 2016 6:11:52 am PDT #18145 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Like you were going to church (on TV) but one step more casual?


Jesse - Mar 23, 2016 6:15:41 am PDT #18146 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, a day dress, probably?


Steph L. - Mar 23, 2016 6:16:34 am PDT #18147 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Like you were going to church (on TV) but one step more casual?

Dress pants and a nice blouse? Non-fancy dress?


Dana - Mar 23, 2016 6:19:29 am PDT #18148 of 30003
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Yeah, cute dress in bright colors?


Dana - Mar 23, 2016 6:21:54 am PDT #18149 of 30003
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

So I'm going to a funeral this afternoon that I just realized is a Jewish ceremony. Anything I need to know? That sounds like a stupid question, but I like being prepared rather than surprised.

Edit: As far as I know, the widow (my friend) is not particularly devout, but I don't know about her husband or their family. It's just taking place at a cemetery.


Burrell - Mar 23, 2016 7:28:25 am PDT #18150 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Sending lots of strength and love your way, Liese. I'm glad you are finding time to take care of yourself as well.

Seriously, that's an undue burden? Is the government supposed to just figure things out without being notified? Craziness.

I believe the undue burden is not the effort required, but the fact that despite their clear intention to deny birth control coverage, there is still a way for their employees to get it. The psychological burden of knowing that some of their employees might be having non-procreative sex is just unbearable.


Connie Neil - Mar 23, 2016 7:29:37 am PDT #18151 of 30003
brillig

A minor moral quandary. A young man who talked to Hubby a lot for advice sent me a message on FB asking for my phone number so he could ask for some non-family advice. The problem is, I think this guy is a fairly despicable human being, but I socialized with him with Hubby. Maybe he's come to some sort of revelation that I could help him not be so despicable. But I don't want to talk to him. I think I'd rather just do this over FB messaging. I think I'll use the excuse of not-unlimited minutes and the problems of finding a convenient time to talk.


Burrell - Mar 23, 2016 7:29:56 am PDT #18152 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Dana, the same clothes that you'd wear to any funeral should suffice.


-t - Mar 23, 2016 7:41:53 am PDT #18153 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't think there's much that's very different, Dana, but I'm not sure what you're used to. There may be some shoveling of dirt into the grave at the end, but I don't think that's obligatory for all the attendees. Going back to the house after for some food and chat is expected but not in, like, a procession. Don't bring flowers.


-t - Mar 23, 2016 7:45:48 am PDT #18154 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You aren't obligated to maintain social ties if you don't want to, Connie. "I don't like giving out my number" is enough reason, I would think.