All right, yes, date and shop and hang out and go to school and save the world from unspeakable demons. You know, I wanna do girlie stuff!

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


-t - Jan 13, 2015 11:17:50 am PST #92 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I can't figure out how to just post a link to it, Betsy, or I would. Should be shared with your profile address now.


Theresa - Jan 13, 2015 11:18:44 am PST #93 of 3153
"What would it take to get your daughter to stop tweeting about this?"

I'll have to go back up and start from the beginning, but thank you for opening this thread.

I think one of the last things ita said to me was "Yes, but I have a moon." I said, " Oh sure, play the moon card, you win."


flea - Jan 13, 2015 11:22:16 am PST #94 of 3153
information libertarian

Oh god, I just remembered when ita Googled dog porn, based on something silly I'd said about porn for dogs. She was like, "Well, there's about 50% fewer dogs than I was expecting..."


amyth - Jan 13, 2015 11:23:21 am PST #95 of 3153
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Kiba Rika, we are meeting 8:30-9:00. Cheerwine is fine, I'm sure. Glad you can join us!


javachik - Jan 13, 2015 11:25:06 am PST #96 of 3153
Our wings are not tired.

Oh god, I just remembered when ita Googled dog porn, based on something silly I'd said about porn for dogs. She was like, "Well, there's about 50% fewer dogs than I was expecting..."

Oh. My. God. (or should that be Dog?)


jengod - Jan 13, 2015 11:26:34 am PST #97 of 3153

~We never see each other any more except at weddings and funerals.~

I haven't been here for a very long time, but Buffistas was so important to me at a key point in my life. Betsy HP forwarded my resume to a woman she encountered on the Internet, and that woman referred me to a job at E! Online and I was there for eight years and I tell everybody I can (including Joss Whedon the one time I met him) that Buffy saved my life.

But it wasn't really Buffy.

It was the Buffistas.

ita was at the center of that, and honestly, just so damn cool. I only met her once, but I think of that evening quite often, just because she was so kind and so hospitable and a model of the kind of woman I wanted to be when I grew up and sorted myself out.

ita, wherever you are, you will not be forgotten.


sumi - Jan 13, 2015 11:27:57 am PST #98 of 3153
Art Crawl!!!

One of the things I regret is that I never met ita in real life.


Glamcookie - Jan 13, 2015 11:28:04 am PST #99 of 3153
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

You guys, I dirty-danced with ita at girlbar back in the day and it was GLORIOUS.


Kiba Rika - Jan 13, 2015 11:30:09 am PST #100 of 3153
I may have to seize the cat.

amyth, I won't be out until 9 or 9:30.


Theresa - Jan 13, 2015 11:31:13 am PST #101 of 3153
"What would it take to get your daughter to stop tweeting about this?"

I'm with Aims. I keep trying to push the damn "like".