Okay, um, I'm lost. Uh, I'm angry, and I'm armed, so if you two have something that you need to work out --

Mal ,'War Stories'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


amyth - Jan 13, 2015 11:23:21 am PST #95 of 3153
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Kiba Rika, we are meeting 8:30-9:00. Cheerwine is fine, I'm sure. Glad you can join us!


javachik - Jan 13, 2015 11:25:06 am PST #96 of 3153
Our wings are not tired.

Oh god, I just remembered when ita Googled dog porn, based on something silly I'd said about porn for dogs. She was like, "Well, there's about 50% fewer dogs than I was expecting..."

Oh. My. God. (or should that be Dog?)


jengod - Jan 13, 2015 11:26:34 am PST #97 of 3153

~We never see each other any more except at weddings and funerals.~

I haven't been here for a very long time, but Buffistas was so important to me at a key point in my life. Betsy HP forwarded my resume to a woman she encountered on the Internet, and that woman referred me to a job at E! Online and I was there for eight years and I tell everybody I can (including Joss Whedon the one time I met him) that Buffy saved my life.

But it wasn't really Buffy.

It was the Buffistas.

ita was at the center of that, and honestly, just so damn cool. I only met her once, but I think of that evening quite often, just because she was so kind and so hospitable and a model of the kind of woman I wanted to be when I grew up and sorted myself out.

ita, wherever you are, you will not be forgotten.


sumi - Jan 13, 2015 11:27:57 am PST #98 of 3153
Art Crawl!!!

One of the things I regret is that I never met ita in real life.


Glamcookie - Jan 13, 2015 11:28:04 am PST #99 of 3153
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

You guys, I dirty-danced with ita at girlbar back in the day and it was GLORIOUS.


Kiba Rika - Jan 13, 2015 11:30:09 am PST #100 of 3153
I may have to seize the cat.

amyth, I won't be out until 9 or 9:30.


Theresa - Jan 13, 2015 11:31:13 am PST #101 of 3153
"What would it take to get your daughter to stop tweeting about this?"

I'm with Aims. I keep trying to push the damn "like".


Sophia Brooks - Jan 13, 2015 11:31:40 am PST #102 of 3153
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I regret that too, sumi. Even just over the internet-- she was just so present and strong and sure and admirable. There is a LOT of there there.


-t - Jan 13, 2015 11:34:27 am PST #103 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Figured it out, I think: [link]


amych - Jan 13, 2015 11:35:39 am PST #104 of 3153
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

amyth, I won't be out until 9 or 9:30.

I'm sure we'll still be there. Swing by and wallow with us!