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ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


JZ - Jan 15, 2015 4:39:31 pm PST #628 of 3156
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Also, weren't there, like, people having sex on the balcony across from our hotel?

With all the talk of drinks and proof, it took me a moment to parse out that you were talking about *actual* sex, and not some NOLA drink special.

Still kills me that I missed that F2F. I love that city so dearly, and I wanted so badly to be in it with Buffistas (to be fair, I honeymooned there with a Buffista AIWFG, but I am greedy and want more).


Kate P. - Jan 15, 2015 4:43:20 pm PST #629 of 3156
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Oh, I was upset about missing New Orleans too, and then doubly so when Katrina hit just a few months later.


Anne W. - Jan 15, 2015 4:44:17 pm PST #630 of 3156
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Oh, I was upset about missing New Orleans too, and then doubly so when Katrina hit just a few months later.

Same. The only two F2Fs I made were DC and SF. I wish I had attended more.

I also wish I had had the chance to meet ita in person.


Hil R. - Jan 15, 2015 4:46:48 pm PST #631 of 3156
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I missed that, but I think Trudy held a watch-and-post party in her room.

Well, it started out as just some people hanging out in our room, but then we noticed them across the street...


amych - Jan 15, 2015 4:46:51 pm PST #632 of 3156
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I'm with amyth, calli, Hayden, and S. (Who technically has a login here but I don't think ever used it.) We're having a remote wake of sorts, drinking and telling stories and speaking in old-friend in-jokes and TV references, which seems just about right.


Kate P. - Jan 15, 2015 4:48:29 pm PST #633 of 3156
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I know we've all been saying this, but it is such emotional whiplash to see all these familiar names posting again. I mean, Christ, John H is here! I stayed with you in Sydney in 2003 and then we lost touch when you left the board soon after, but I've thought of you many times since then, and I'll always be grateful to you for hosting me and being so kind to me.

And then I remember why everyone is coming back and I just want to scream.


Ginger - Jan 15, 2015 4:53:47 pm PST #634 of 3156
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I know. There are so many people whom I've missed. I've thought, "I miss John H" many times.


Lilty Cash - Jan 15, 2015 5:03:12 pm PST #635 of 3156
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I remember having made plans for NOLA. I can't for the life of me remember what happened so I couldn't go. Dangit.


sj - Jan 15, 2015 5:07:10 pm PST #636 of 3156
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I only ever made it to Seattle and Providence. Something else was always coming up with the other ones. One time it was money, TCG and I just found an apartment to share and couldn't swing the cost of moving and a F2F, and the other times it was either also money or social anxiety. I think I joined the board either right before or right after the LA F2F but I think it was after.


-t - Jan 15, 2015 5:08:11 pm PST #637 of 3156
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have spent more time on FB in the last two days than I have in the last four *years*. I will probably check in more there, but it is not a comfy place for me, nor will I be greatly expanding my friends there. I'm happy here. Here is good. But the pictures are there, so.

You and me both, Bev.

That's good, amych. I'm glad you could get together.