Dawn: You're not fleeing. You're... moving at a brisk pace. Buffy: Quaintly referred to in some cultures as the Big Scaredy Run Away.

'Touched'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


P.M. Marc - Jan 14, 2015 8:13:00 pm PST #485 of 3153
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I keep waiting for ita to argue with me about Black Widow in Natter. Man.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 14, 2015 8:28:39 pm PST #486 of 3153
What is even happening?

Nobody else dies. Deal? We're just going to stay here, like this. forever.

Well, that was the deal.

Frig.


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:31:09 pm PST #487 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

on Joss

"If that mean man makes me cry again, I'm telling my mummy."


meara - Jan 14, 2015 8:31:27 pm PST #488 of 3153

I did get home ok, Kat. They'll let you through security without ID, you just have to get extra pay downs.


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:33:00 pm PST #489 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

"Spike's going to die. And we don't even get a pretty corpse to mourn over."


DavidS - Jan 14, 2015 8:34:32 pm PST #490 of 3153
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Thank goodness, meara. That was an arduous trek there and back.

I keep waiting for ita to argue with me about Black Widow in Natter. Man.

Even her wrongness is missed. Or the surety of her POV.


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:35:50 pm PST #491 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

she was really afraid they would kill Spike

"Maybe Spike could be spun off into his own series where he does evil and mocks the good guys. And the other bad guys.

whimper he's so dust in the wind"

"JM's spinoff can be set in the 70s and 80s. Well, mostly the 70s, because I do not want to see him with his New Romantic hairdo."


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:37:04 pm PST #492 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

"I enjoyed high school

But I was in a good year, in a strange school. Where we were unashamed to have the worst hockey team (I was left wing) in the league, because we spent entirely too much time doing silly things like working out the math of the general theory of relativity during lunch hours, or taking extra classes just for the sake of knowing more.

I'd have hated to be in my class and not be obsessed with book learning. But I was."


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:39:03 pm PST #493 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

"I went to an all girls school too from 11 till 18, and I can't imagine what co-ed schools are like. The only thing I missed out on was how weird the genders could act with each other. In the meanwhile, I could study all the math and physics and computers I wanted, and no one ever implied that it was gender-inappropriate behaviour.

So when I got to university and was one of two women in my year of Comp Sci, it didn't matter to me, and it never occurred to me it might matter to anyone else."


msbelle - Jan 14, 2015 8:39:51 pm PST #494 of 3153
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

"Just today my father tsk-tsked me for having pizza at 11am. As I tried to rationalize it by explaining it was home-made, he rationalized it by calling it brunch, and both of us calmly ignored the fact I left home (well, it left me) over 10 years ago.

Honestly, I've faced more peer pressure outside of high school and college than I did in either. All I had to do in HS was follow some explicit rules, overachieve academically, do a sport, and some charity work. All I had to do in university was graduate.

Now I have to dress this way, act that way, follow this schedule, meet these expectations . . . . and it comes from all angles, family, acquaintances, co-workers.

I'm pretty good at blocking it all, but I resent having to use the cycles to do it. And perhaps, as a result, I seem to attract teenaged girls who don't fit in. Which is fine by me. I know I had it easy."