You know, I just... I woke up, and I looked in the mirror, and I thought, hey, what's with all the sin? I need to change. I'm... I'm dirty. I'm, I'm bad with the... sex and the envy and that, that loud music us kids listen to nowadays.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 14, 2015 10:14:00 am PST #365 of 3157
What is even happening?

-t, I searched on "ita," in COMM 1 last night and skimmed every page, but didn't see it. Dana, it was so funny -- such a good moment here.


Allyson - Jan 14, 2015 10:16:51 am PST #366 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

A text conversation from June:

Me: I miss you, let me know when you're good.

ita: I miss you too. But I may never be good. Perhaps I should have a wake before I die. Would you throw me one?

Me: Will you wear gingham?

ita: Vintage Gingham, even.

Me: I'll learn to make jerk chicken. And cake with raisins.

ita: I think it can be a healing and bonding experience for us all.

Me: Send me the invitation list.

ita: Let's see, how many friends do I have left after brushing them off for three years?

Me: I'm oddly in the same boat.

ita: We shoulda had kids. Not together, per se, but they excuse all sorts of brushing off, plus you get to post one pic a day (note to Jesse - no you don't)

Me: Well, there will be fewer people to cook for. So I can buy better quality meat.

ita: And it will be quieter.

Me: When should we throw this macabre shindig?

ita: Start of August? Does everyone in L.A. wish they were dead then?

Me: I wish I was dead all the time, it's what I do!

ita: Yeah, it's not very seasonal...


Sean K - Jan 14, 2015 10:24:57 am PST #367 of 3157
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Laughy-pain.


bon bon - Jan 14, 2015 10:26:55 am PST #368 of 3157
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I will leave Monday open.


-t - Jan 14, 2015 10:34:39 am PST #369 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Allyson, that's kind of perfect.

Cindy, I almost remember that it didn't get COMM'd because too many posts to gather together, but I might be making that up. My memory is unreliable that way.


Dana - Jan 14, 2015 10:39:00 am PST #370 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Found it. Does this link work?

shrift "Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost." Mar 31, 2006 2:04:39 pm PST


Nilly - Jan 14, 2015 10:40:19 am PST #371 of 3157
Swouncing

Cindy, was it Topic!Cindy "Coffee On My Monitor" Mar 31, 2006 3:39:51 pm PST ?

[Edit: x-posted with Dana!]


Tom Scola - Jan 14, 2015 10:41:35 am PST #372 of 3157
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Awww, Nilly is Nillying!!


JZ - Jan 14, 2015 10:42:17 am PST #373 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Ha ha ow. Oh, loves.

I just had a brief exchange (hijacking a Golden Globes gown discussion thread on TLo) with a commenter over there who had mentioned ages ago that she used to lurk here (long enough ago that she can't recall either the name or the email address she used), and she said:

I am so very sorry. You are all in my thoughts. I can't wrap my head around her being gone. I send my love to you and everyone else there. It's a special place and this is a hard, terrible thing.

Lurkers, silently lurking with love and compassion - as Hec once said, like the angels in Wings of Desire.


Dana - Jan 14, 2015 10:47:21 am PST #374 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

What post on TLo, JZ?