It's possible that he's in the land of perpetual Wednesday, or the crazy melty land, or you know, the world without shrimp.

Anya ,'Showtime'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 14, 2015 10:14:00 am PST #365 of 3153
What is even happening?

-t, I searched on "ita," in COMM 1 last night and skimmed every page, but didn't see it. Dana, it was so funny -- such a good moment here.


Allyson - Jan 14, 2015 10:16:51 am PST #366 of 3153
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

A text conversation from June:

Me: I miss you, let me know when you're good.

ita: I miss you too. But I may never be good. Perhaps I should have a wake before I die. Would you throw me one?

Me: Will you wear gingham?

ita: Vintage Gingham, even.

Me: I'll learn to make jerk chicken. And cake with raisins.

ita: I think it can be a healing and bonding experience for us all.

Me: Send me the invitation list.

ita: Let's see, how many friends do I have left after brushing them off for three years?

Me: I'm oddly in the same boat.

ita: We shoulda had kids. Not together, per se, but they excuse all sorts of brushing off, plus you get to post one pic a day (note to Jesse - no you don't)

Me: Well, there will be fewer people to cook for. So I can buy better quality meat.

ita: And it will be quieter.

Me: When should we throw this macabre shindig?

ita: Start of August? Does everyone in L.A. wish they were dead then?

Me: I wish I was dead all the time, it's what I do!

ita: Yeah, it's not very seasonal...


Sean K - Jan 14, 2015 10:24:57 am PST #367 of 3153
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Laughy-pain.


bon bon - Jan 14, 2015 10:26:55 am PST #368 of 3153
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I will leave Monday open.


-t - Jan 14, 2015 10:34:39 am PST #369 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Allyson, that's kind of perfect.

Cindy, I almost remember that it didn't get COMM'd because too many posts to gather together, but I might be making that up. My memory is unreliable that way.


Dana - Jan 14, 2015 10:39:00 am PST #370 of 3153
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Found it. Does this link work?

shrift "Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost." Mar 31, 2006 2:04:39 pm PST


Nilly - Jan 14, 2015 10:40:19 am PST #371 of 3153
Swouncing

Cindy, was it Topic!Cindy "Coffee On My Monitor" Mar 31, 2006 3:39:51 pm PST ?

[Edit: x-posted with Dana!]


Tom Scola - Jan 14, 2015 10:41:35 am PST #372 of 3153
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Awww, Nilly is Nillying!!


JZ - Jan 14, 2015 10:42:17 am PST #373 of 3153
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Ha ha ow. Oh, loves.

I just had a brief exchange (hijacking a Golden Globes gown discussion thread on TLo) with a commenter over there who had mentioned ages ago that she used to lurk here (long enough ago that she can't recall either the name or the email address she used), and she said:

I am so very sorry. You are all in my thoughts. I can't wrap my head around her being gone. I send my love to you and everyone else there. It's a special place and this is a hard, terrible thing.

Lurkers, silently lurking with love and compassion - as Hec once said, like the angels in Wings of Desire.


Dana - Jan 14, 2015 10:47:21 am PST #374 of 3153
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

What post on TLo, JZ?