-t, I searched on "ita," in COMM 1 last night and skimmed every page, but didn't see it. Dana, it was so funny -- such a good moment here.
'Potential'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
A text conversation from June:
Me: I miss you, let me know when you're good.
ita: I miss you too. But I may never be good. Perhaps I should have a wake before I die. Would you throw me one?
Me: Will you wear gingham?
ita: Vintage Gingham, even.
Me: I'll learn to make jerk chicken. And cake with raisins.
ita: I think it can be a healing and bonding experience for us all.
Me: Send me the invitation list.
ita: Let's see, how many friends do I have left after brushing them off for three years?
Me: I'm oddly in the same boat.
ita: We shoulda had kids. Not together, per se, but they excuse all sorts of brushing off, plus you get to post one pic a day (note to Jesse - no you don't)
Me: Well, there will be fewer people to cook for. So I can buy better quality meat.
ita: And it will be quieter.
Me: When should we throw this macabre shindig?
ita: Start of August? Does everyone in L.A. wish they were dead then?
Me: I wish I was dead all the time, it's what I do!
ita: Yeah, it's not very seasonal...
Laughy-pain.
I will leave Monday open.
Oh, Allyson, that's kind of perfect.
Cindy, I almost remember that it didn't get COMM'd because too many posts to gather together, but I might be making that up. My memory is unreliable that way.
Found it. Does this link work?
shrift "Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost." Mar 31, 2006 2:04:39 pm PST
Cindy, was it Topic!Cindy "Coffee On My Monitor" Mar 31, 2006 3:39:51 pm PST ?
[Edit: x-posted with Dana!]
Awww, Nilly is Nillying!!
Ha ha ow. Oh, loves.
I just had a brief exchange (hijacking a Golden Globes gown discussion thread on TLo) with a commenter over there who had mentioned ages ago that she used to lurk here (long enough ago that she can't recall either the name or the email address she used), and she said:
I am so very sorry. You are all in my thoughts. I can't wrap my head around her being gone. I send my love to you and everyone else there. It's a special place and this is a hard, terrible thing.
Lurkers, silently lurking with love and compassion - as Hec once said, like the angels in Wings of Desire.
What post on TLo, JZ?