You know what they say about payback? Well I'm the bitch.

Fred ,'Life of the Party'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


-t - Jan 14, 2015 9:55:22 am PST #362 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, I remember that. Dana was a loose cannon avenging shrift (I forget why vengeance was needed) and ita was her lieut. I feel like I was at the S&WB when I was reading it, so 2004-2005 if that helps.


Kat - Jan 14, 2015 9:57:43 am PST #363 of 3153
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

bon bon, I'd be up for an open house. Monday Grace has an eye appointment but we otherwise have off.


Polgara - Jan 14, 2015 10:09:35 am PST #364 of 3153
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS

ita's family is hoping to arrive on Sunday, so I don't want to make any gathering plans until we know their schedule and what we can do to help.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 14, 2015 10:14:00 am PST #365 of 3153
What is even happening?

-t, I searched on "ita," in COMM 1 last night and skimmed every page, but didn't see it. Dana, it was so funny -- such a good moment here.


Allyson - Jan 14, 2015 10:16:51 am PST #366 of 3153
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

A text conversation from June:

Me: I miss you, let me know when you're good.

ita: I miss you too. But I may never be good. Perhaps I should have a wake before I die. Would you throw me one?

Me: Will you wear gingham?

ita: Vintage Gingham, even.

Me: I'll learn to make jerk chicken. And cake with raisins.

ita: I think it can be a healing and bonding experience for us all.

Me: Send me the invitation list.

ita: Let's see, how many friends do I have left after brushing them off for three years?

Me: I'm oddly in the same boat.

ita: We shoulda had kids. Not together, per se, but they excuse all sorts of brushing off, plus you get to post one pic a day (note to Jesse - no you don't)

Me: Well, there will be fewer people to cook for. So I can buy better quality meat.

ita: And it will be quieter.

Me: When should we throw this macabre shindig?

ita: Start of August? Does everyone in L.A. wish they were dead then?

Me: I wish I was dead all the time, it's what I do!

ita: Yeah, it's not very seasonal...


Sean K - Jan 14, 2015 10:24:57 am PST #367 of 3153
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Laughy-pain.


bon bon - Jan 14, 2015 10:26:55 am PST #368 of 3153
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I will leave Monday open.


-t - Jan 14, 2015 10:34:39 am PST #369 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Allyson, that's kind of perfect.

Cindy, I almost remember that it didn't get COMM'd because too many posts to gather together, but I might be making that up. My memory is unreliable that way.


Dana - Jan 14, 2015 10:39:00 am PST #370 of 3153
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Found it. Does this link work?

shrift "Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost." Mar 31, 2006 2:04:39 pm PST


Nilly - Jan 14, 2015 10:40:19 am PST #371 of 3153
Swouncing

Cindy, was it Topic!Cindy "Coffee On My Monitor" Mar 31, 2006 3:39:51 pm PST ?

[Edit: x-posted with Dana!]