Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.

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NoiseDesign - May 20, 2026 3:38:07 pm PDT #3203 of 3212
Our wings are not tired

I had some wondeful talk with Todd in DC and New Orleans. I really enjoyed her company as well. I agree, she is truly missed.


flea - Jun 01, 2026 5:12:14 pm PDT #3204 of 3212
information libertarian

I miss Norah and I miss Sue O.


-t - Jun 01, 2026 5:50:52 pm PDT #3205 of 3212
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

So much, yes


sj - Jun 02, 2026 8:58:27 am PDT #3206 of 3212
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I miss so many of the people we’ve lost here. I find an article at least once a week that I want to send to JZ.


Cass - Jun 02, 2026 6:12:24 pm PDT #3207 of 3212
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Norah is unbelievable to me. I just cannot.

But recently I came across a Tumblr RIP and I felt it then checked where it came from and it was ita.

I miss her. I miss everyone.


EpicTangent - Jun 17, 2026 3:35:04 pm PDT #3208 of 3212
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Norah is unbelievable to me. I just cannot.

Very much this. Unreal.


Laura - Jun 27, 2026 4:09:41 am PDT #3209 of 3212
Our wings are not tired.

Our hearts are filled with love and gratitude that JZ was born this day and was a part of our lives. Jacqueline is missed so much by so many today on her birthday, and every day.


erikaj - Jun 29, 2026 1:54:08 pm PDT #3210 of 3212
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Yes, absolutely. I know that she would be so proud that my writing is getting attention this summer. (Not that the only loss is my not having a cheerleader, but I think about that a lot.)


Laura - Jul 07, 2026 5:22:32 am PDT #3211 of 3212
Our wings are not tired.

Remembering Frankenbuddha on his birthday today. I always picture him in the bowler he wore at the Atlanta F2F.


Beverly - Jul 12, 2026 5:21:41 pm PDT #3212 of 3212
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I do too, Laura. RIP.


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