Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!

Xander ,'Chosen'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Nov 04, 2024 1:46:23 pm PST #3148 of 3214
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Thank you, Laura. I'm not good at such things, and it means a lot to know and remember.

I often wonder about Mr. Peabody, too.


Laura - Nov 19, 2024 8:36:13 am PST #3149 of 3214
Our wings are not tired.

Today we remember DXMachina on his birthday. I always thought of Ed as a cuddly teddy bear. He was always sweet to me and I miss his presence.


DavidS - Nov 19, 2024 11:26:57 am PST #3150 of 3214
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Today we remember DXMachina on his birthday.

I'll raise a toast to Ed, tell him the Dodgers won, and play some Kinks in his honor.


Laura - Nov 19, 2024 11:34:24 am PST #3151 of 3214
Our wings are not tired.

Excellent choices.


-t - Nov 19, 2024 12:31:38 pm PST #3152 of 3214
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, DXM. I think of him whenever I see an Opus image


Steph L. - Nov 19, 2024 1:34:10 pm PST #3153 of 3214
That which does not kill you should RUN

I still have the Farscape action figures he sent me after my surgery. They're on the top shelf of the bookshelf staring at me.


Laura - Jan 04, 2025 5:51:28 am PST #3154 of 3214
Our wings are not tired.

On the anniversary of Ita's birth, her sister Moji has invited us to participate in a Zoom gathering. As always, we cherish the memories. Personally, I will pick up a Ting from one of the local Jamaican grocery stops and toast her memory.

Zoom details in Press

Time: 4th January 2025 4:00 pm EST (time differences are in the previous email below) [link] Meeting ID: 947 8910 1984 Password: 422800


dcp - Jan 04, 2025 4:35:57 pm PST #3155 of 3214
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

It was a nice online event. Stories were told. Memories were shared. There was laughter, and a few tears.


erikaj - Jan 05, 2025 10:37:37 am PST #3156 of 3214
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I wish I hadn't missed that, but yesterday turned out to be kind of a terrible day. ETA: I did write something partially about her, though. Wondered if this belongs here or Bitches, but... [link]


Jesse - Jan 13, 2025 5:58:42 pm PST #3157 of 3214
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm sorry I couldn't make ita's zoom, and have been thinking about her all week, for so many reasons.