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A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Strix - Jun 15, 2019 4:13:13 am PDT #3000 of 3153
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hey, all, popping in for a moment.

So I am going to Jamaica in September. We will be in Negril; I don't even know if ita's family has a headstone, but if so, I imagine it's close to Kingston maybe, and we're not traveling there.

I wasn't superclose to ita, but I liked and admired her enormously. I plan on taking a space out of an evening to have a quiet moment to honor her.

I don't know if any Buffistas have been to Jamaica since she passed, but if anyone has a candle, an object, or words of their own I can be a voice for, I'm planning on taking time to remember her and I would be honored to carry them when I go.

I'll be thinking of her fondly and wistfully the whole time anyway.


erikaj - Jun 15, 2019 3:24:10 pm PDT #3001 of 3153
Always Anti-fascist!

good for you for going...seem to remember it's been on your list for some time.


EpicTangent - Aug 08, 2019 6:59:27 am PDT #3002 of 3153
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Just went over to Goodreads to mark myself as re-reading Seanan's Every Heart a Doorway. Glancing through the many buffistas who've read it, I see Ginger marked it "To Read". Gutpunch.


DavidS - Aug 08, 2019 7:52:25 am PDT #3003 of 3153
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I see Ginger marked it "To Read". Gutpunch.

Ooof!


Jessica - Aug 18, 2019 6:28:33 pm PDT #3004 of 3153
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Tonight's John Oliver is all about racial and gender bias in medicine.


Jessica - Aug 18, 2019 6:34:11 pm PDT #3005 of 3153
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

It's very funny, but hard to laugh at.


P.M. Marc - Jan 13, 2020 5:03:07 pm PST #3006 of 3153
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

So who all was seriously jarred by Facebook memories feeding them a big old square of pink gingham with the information that it was five years ago?


Steph L. - Jan 13, 2020 5:06:34 pm PST #3007 of 3153
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

My FB memories hit me with the picture I posted of ita getting her custom action figure at the LA F2F, and that was a gut punch.

Also: how the FUCK has it been 5 years.


askye - Jan 13, 2020 5:26:07 pm PST #3008 of 3153
Thrive to spite them

I wasn't going to look at the memories today because I'm missing vermont and cold weather again and didn't want to feel that and then I thought "well I'll see what else happened"

And saw my post about ita. AND the first person who commented on it was my Mom's best friend who died last year.


-t - Jan 13, 2020 6:07:27 pm PST #3009 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah. 5 years, how can that be?