Buffy: He ran away, right? Giles: Sort of, more. turned and swept out majestically, I suppose. Said I didn't concern him. Buffy: So a mythic triumph over a completely indifferent foe? Giles: Well, I'm not dead or unconscious, so I say bravo for me.

'Same Time, Same Place'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Jan 17, 2018 3:58:05 pm PST #2852 of 3156
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Going off Fred's idea, in one heritage family the first and second born daughters are interested in other things. The youngest is obviously destined for another calling. But the middle child, who appears to have few outstanding attributes? Begs to be included, and once in training, blows everyone away and kicks ass.


hippocampus - Jan 19, 2018 12:35:35 pm PST #2853 of 3156
not your mom's socks.

primary superpower: side-eye takedowns

secondary: can automate you out of a job in 17 seconds

kills with her pinky home base on a moon


-t - Jan 19, 2018 2:15:44 pm PST #2854 of 3156
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Im not sure how best to work in her being a Moon, but it's gotta happen.

Maybe that could be her origin story -she's actually a Moon the way Starlord's Dad is a planet?


smonster - Jan 19, 2018 4:47:35 pm PST #2855 of 3156
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I vote silver costume with pink gingham accents.


sumi - Jan 22, 2018 9:47:03 am PST #2856 of 3156
Art Crawl!!!

I vote for smonster's costume design.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 23, 2018 5:08:12 am PST #2857 of 3156
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

So far, the costume appears to be black leather pants and a pink gingham sports top. Good for fighting AND kicking back and reading comics.


Steph L. - Jan 23, 2018 9:47:40 am PST #2858 of 3156
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

You guys, a friend of ours has been dealing with chronic bad migraines after getting a concussion last year. And there is literally nothing I can say to him or his fiance, because all I can think of is ita.*

Though he's a straight white middle-class dude, so I imagine his medical care will be vastly better than hers.

*(I do know that chronic migraine can be treated more effectively than ita's was, and I hope that my friend's migraine is responsive to treatment. But I just remember everything she went through, and I worry for him.)


WindSparrow - Jan 23, 2018 10:15:45 am PST #2859 of 3156
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Sometimes relying on stock phrases is good. Warm thoughts for you, and ~ma for yourr friend.

Because the fix for inequality and injustice is to treat every with the respect that white guys get, rather than grinding everyone down to the same level of injustice as WOC.


Steph L. - Jan 23, 2018 10:29:37 am PST #2860 of 3156
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Yeah, I'm definitely glad that he'll get good care, for sure. I hope he has a good outcome. I just wish so damn hard that what he's going to experience is what she experienced.

Sometimes relying on stock phrases is good.

Yeah, the good thing about being a medical editor is that I can respond to specific things, like Botox treatment, and say, "I've heard that's helpful." Because I *have* heard that it's helpful. The chronic worrier in the back of my head isn't allowed to pipe up with "But but BUT..."

And then I feel super lucky that my migraines are sporadic and (I hope) better controlled with this piercing (which is still so damn weird but cool). (And I do in fact have a migraine today, because the weather has been changing dramatically, back and forth, for about 2 weeks, and my head finally gave in. BUT -- the pain seems to be mild to moderate, compared with the pain before the piercing, which was moderate to severe. So hooray, hole in the head.) (It could be a placebo effect, but even if it is, I don't care one whit, because a placebo effect is still an effect.)


Burrell - Jan 24, 2018 6:57:07 am PST #2861 of 3156
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

If it cuts down on my pain, I'll take placebo effect any day of the week