I just think you're freakin' out 'cause you have to fight someone prettier than you.

Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


-t - Jan 19, 2018 2:15:44 pm PST #2854 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Im not sure how best to work in her being a Moon, but it's gotta happen.

Maybe that could be her origin story -she's actually a Moon the way Starlord's Dad is a planet?


smonster - Jan 19, 2018 4:47:35 pm PST #2855 of 3157
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I vote silver costume with pink gingham accents.


sumi - Jan 22, 2018 9:47:03 am PST #2856 of 3157
Art Crawl!!!

I vote for smonster's costume design.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 23, 2018 5:08:12 am PST #2857 of 3157
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

So far, the costume appears to be black leather pants and a pink gingham sports top. Good for fighting AND kicking back and reading comics.


Steph L. - Jan 23, 2018 9:47:40 am PST #2858 of 3157
I look more rad than Lutheranism

You guys, a friend of ours has been dealing with chronic bad migraines after getting a concussion last year. And there is literally nothing I can say to him or his fiance, because all I can think of is ita.*

Though he's a straight white middle-class dude, so I imagine his medical care will be vastly better than hers.

*(I do know that chronic migraine can be treated more effectively than ita's was, and I hope that my friend's migraine is responsive to treatment. But I just remember everything she went through, and I worry for him.)


WindSparrow - Jan 23, 2018 10:15:45 am PST #2859 of 3157
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Sometimes relying on stock phrases is good. Warm thoughts for you, and ~ma for yourr friend.

Because the fix for inequality and injustice is to treat every with the respect that white guys get, rather than grinding everyone down to the same level of injustice as WOC.


Steph L. - Jan 23, 2018 10:29:37 am PST #2860 of 3157
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Yeah, I'm definitely glad that he'll get good care, for sure. I hope he has a good outcome. I just wish so damn hard that what he's going to experience is what she experienced.

Sometimes relying on stock phrases is good.

Yeah, the good thing about being a medical editor is that I can respond to specific things, like Botox treatment, and say, "I've heard that's helpful." Because I *have* heard that it's helpful. The chronic worrier in the back of my head isn't allowed to pipe up with "But but BUT..."

And then I feel super lucky that my migraines are sporadic and (I hope) better controlled with this piercing (which is still so damn weird but cool). (And I do in fact have a migraine today, because the weather has been changing dramatically, back and forth, for about 2 weeks, and my head finally gave in. BUT -- the pain seems to be mild to moderate, compared with the pain before the piercing, which was moderate to severe. So hooray, hole in the head.) (It could be a placebo effect, but even if it is, I don't care one whit, because a placebo effect is still an effect.)


Burrell - Jan 24, 2018 6:57:07 am PST #2861 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

If it cuts down on my pain, I'll take placebo effect any day of the week


askye - Jan 26, 2018 3:08:34 pm PST #2862 of 3157
Thrive to spite them

I am going to start wearing make up at work (a department store) because my face is red and I want to look more polished.

Clinque has a gift with purchase that is eye make up so I bought foundation and lipstick. I asked advice on a shade and the clinque rep (who is my co worker) immediately suggested Black Honey.

And I ended up talking about ita for a bit. And pre ordered the lipstick.


smonster - Jan 26, 2018 7:05:45 pm PST #2863 of 3157
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I may have seen a preliminary version of Tom's character based on ita and it may be AWESOME.