See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


DavidS - Dec 07, 2016 6:13:53 pm PST #2714 of 3156
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I hope Mr. Peabody is well.

Me too. I got to meet him and pet him. He liked me temporarily.


Vortex - Dec 07, 2016 6:57:15 pm PST #2715 of 3156
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Today, this came up on my Facebook memory feed:

I don't know how to express myself. A lovely friend who has brought such joy and snark to so many is not long for this world. She has been moved into hospice and it will be only a few days. I will think of her rolling her eyes at her dramatic relatives and complaining about crappy internet. Love to a sister of my heart and to all of my other loved ones who are losing her too.

As much as I hate Facebook doing too much, sometimes I appreciate them reminding me of Ginger at a time when I can smile instead of feeling the crushing sense of loss.*

*I misstyped "love" when I first typed this post, and I think that may have been a tiny bit Freudian.


WindSparrow - Dec 07, 2016 8:48:14 pm PST #2716 of 3156
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I was coherent in my response to Ginger's sister. Here I'm gonna say what I really want.

fuckfuckfuck

fuck cancer


Laura - Dec 08, 2016 7:07:42 am PST #2717 of 3156
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, FB brought the memory again, but recently those memories have been more gratitude that she was a part of my life than the raw pain of a while back. That and the intense anger that Ginger, ita, and so many others have to devote so much of their lives to fighting a healthcare system that is horrible and heartless.


Vortex - Dec 11, 2016 3:06:17 pm PST #2718 of 3156
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Absolutely.


erikaj - Dec 12, 2016 11:27:14 am PST #2719 of 3156
Always Anti-fascist!

wrod. Although the reason the holidays make me think of ita most is because she said "Kiss my ass," begins with K, too.


msbelle - Dec 15, 2016 4:33:27 am PST #2720 of 3156
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh friend, such overwhelming thoughts of you this morning. I miss you.


Volans - Dec 16, 2016 2:46:13 pm PST #2721 of 3156
move out and draw fire

I've been trying to tell myself that it's probably OK they didn't have to see a Trump presidency.


msbelle - Dec 16, 2016 6:24:29 pm PST #2722 of 3156
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I know you hate the secular Christmas music, but it's all I can bring myself to play and I laugh hearing you say how much you did not like it.


EpicTangent - Dec 19, 2016 8:22:49 am PST #2723 of 3156
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Joan's outfit on Sherlock last night was particularly sharp and I thought how much ita would have loved it.