I can't do anything more complex than sleeping.
Up until the punching, it was a real nice party.
Kaylee ,'Shindig'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
Allyson - Jan 25, 2015 1:40:17 pm PST #1318 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
Typo Boy - Jan 25, 2015 2:45:47 pm PST #1319 of 3157
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Sleep Allyson. You have lovely hair and you have more than earned a chance to rest and recover. So far beyond. And tell your demons who keep lying about you to you to go to hell. You were the best friend anyone could have had to ita and you did wonders in handling the aftermath.
esse - Jan 25, 2015 2:46:14 pm PST #1320 of 3157
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!
for Buffistas who want to come to LA to meet and celebrate ita's life.
Oh, yes please. I want this very much. Thank you, Pix.
Pix - Jan 25, 2015 3:05:00 pm PST #1321 of 3157
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
You guys have done all of the heavy lifting - planning, physical logistics, and bearing all those emotional burdens alone and for each other and with her family - and you absolutely deserve a break.
To be extremely clear, I am not among this group. Although I have been lucky enough to benefit from their love and planning, I am not one of the LAiastas who was closest to ita and have not had any part of the heavy lifting.
I feel really strongly about not stepping on their toes in any way on this.
Rayne - Jan 25, 2015 3:50:51 pm PST #1322 of 3157
"Oh no! Has falling sky liquid once again caused you the sadness?" -Starfire
The print version of the LA Times is lovely. The picture is much bigger, and they got the i in ita right in both locations.
Everyone who helped with this has incredibly lovely, shiny hair.
P.M. Marc - Jan 25, 2015 3:59:31 pm PST #1323 of 3157
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Is there someone in LA who could grab me a print copy that I could purchase and pay for shipping from?
ETA, the scan will do me fine.
Rayne - Jan 25, 2015 4:05:20 pm PST #1324 of 3157
"Oh no! Has falling sky liquid once again caused you the sadness?" -Starfire
Here's a scan of the print copy. I'll try to pick up a few extra copies if anyone would like one.
P.M. Marc - Jan 25, 2015 4:07:03 pm PST #1325 of 3157
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
I hate that it exists, but the print copy is beautiful.
Burrell - Jan 25, 2015 4:13:17 pm PST #1326 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Polgara, and Jane and Allyson and Kristen, you all did an amazing job on the brunch. It was lovely, it was perfect. Her family, like ita, are beautiful through and through.
And thank you, Pix, for taking on the task of planning a later memorial for ita.
Rayne - Jan 25, 2015 4:14:24 pm PST #1327 of 3157
"Oh no! Has falling sky liquid once again caused you the sadness?" -Starfire
Someday I'm going to work up the courage to meet the LAistas. My biggest regret is that I didn't work up the courage while ita was still here.