Mom! Dead people are talking to you. Do the math!

Buffy ,'Showtime'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Jan 25, 2015 8:16:18 am PST #1281 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I'm with Ginger. Anything small and not valuable--a pebble, a pencil, anything her eye fell on, that she touched.

Or, not. This is enough, really. This collective missing of her and acknowledging her loss.


-t - Jan 25, 2015 8:21:02 am PST #1282 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

But it is both heartbreaking and smile-making to see those things. Thank you, Lee.

Yes. Thank you, Lee.


JenP - Jan 25, 2015 8:54:34 am PST #1283 of 3157

So grateful for everything everyone is doing and for sharing it here. The obituary is a lovely tribute.

I think I "liked" something before I realized what the pictures were, Lee. It was just a like, not a request. I love that those little treasures will be... treasured still.


Anne W. - Jan 25, 2015 9:32:38 am PST #1284 of 3157
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

For me, the thing that would mean most would be a pen or pencil of hers. I only had very casual interaction with ita until the past couple of years, when I started getting back into artwork. I don't feel like I got to know her as well as many of you all did, but I was just starting to get a real taste of it when - poof. Gone.

I cannot tell you all how much I miss the lost opportunities.


Una - Jan 25, 2015 9:54:59 am PST #1285 of 3157
when i die, please bake my ashes into a brick and use me to hit fascists.

There is so much wonderful amazing hair among you all.


Gris - Jan 25, 2015 10:03:51 am PST #1286 of 3157
Hey. New board.

That obituary is beautiful.


smonster - Jan 25, 2015 10:04:16 am PST #1287 of 3157
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hec, your mix is so good I can't listen to it right now because I'm going to cry and have to TCOB. And that's on shuffle (sorry). In the right order I might shatter entirely.


esse - Jan 25, 2015 10:43:17 am PST #1288 of 3157
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Catching up on this thread is some hard work.

Between the obit and John Moore's eulogy it feels too real.


Shir - Jan 25, 2015 10:49:25 am PST #1289 of 3157
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Beautiful obituary. Thank you.


Sparky1 - Jan 25, 2015 10:52:58 am PST #1290 of 3157
Librarian Warlord

The obit, the sharing, it's all so lovely.