Yes, the first headshot is perfect.
As for the Sunday vs weekday question. It only matters if it matters to her family. I would imagine 99+% of loved ones will be reading the obit on line.
If the apocalypse comes, beep me.
Buffy ,'Selfless'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
Laura - Jan 23, 2015 3:15:24 am PST #1141 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.
Atropa - Jan 23, 2015 4:24:46 am PST #1142 of 3157
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
What happens to tumblrs? Do they just stay around indefinitely, even if someone quits posting on it?
I think so. Someone can delete their tumblr, but otherwise they stick around.
Allyson - Jan 23, 2015 5:55:15 am PST #1143 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
Obit is complete, will be in Sunday's LATimes and online. Thank you Ginger for grabbing the picture. Now to shower, get boxes, sharpies, packing tape, put my heart on deep freeze, and go to ita's apartment to pack.
bon bon - Jan 23, 2015 7:04:17 am PST #1144 of 3157
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.
I'm so glad you did this. I'm looking forward to sharing it with people who didn't meet ita.
SailAweigh - Jan 23, 2015 7:07:01 am PST #1145 of 3157
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Wrod. I want everyone who doesn't know her to wish they had.
Jesse - Jan 23, 2015 8:54:25 am PST #1146 of 3157
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
I just read a good thing about grief here: [link] If that link doesn't take you straight to the right bit, the heading is "For Pending Death - also an update"
Shir - Jan 23, 2015 9:13:38 am PST #1147 of 3157
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Oh, Allyson. Beautiful, shiny, gorgeous hair you'be got there.
Polgara - Jan 23, 2015 9:25:35 am PST #1148 of 3157
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS
I'm at ita's apartment with Moji, two cousins, and a friend from Jamaica, and they are making it so much easier to be here than I thought it would be. And they are being fairly unsentimental about much of the fandom stuff, so they want to know if y'all want anything--LotR playing cards, Crow collectible cards, dvds, shoes, books, etc. Most surprising is her art, so later I'll be posting pictures of what they're not taking, for those of you who want to keep a piece of her and the things she loved.
-t - Jan 23, 2015 9:46:14 am PST #1149 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Oh my goodness. I would love to have something and almost don't care what.
I'm glad it's easier than expected for you to be there.
Also, I like your tag, Polgara.
Dana - Jan 23, 2015 10:04:19 am PST #1150 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I hope someone will make good use of her beautiful clothes. That's another weird thought I keep having.