I just read a good thing about grief here: [link] If that link doesn't take you straight to the right bit, the heading is "For Pending Death - also an update"
Simon: You're out of your mind. Early: That's between me and my mind.
'Objects In Space'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
Jesse - Jan 23, 2015 8:54:25 am PST #1146 of 3157
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Shir - Jan 23, 2015 9:13:38 am PST #1147 of 3157
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Oh, Allyson. Beautiful, shiny, gorgeous hair you'be got there.
Polgara - Jan 23, 2015 9:25:35 am PST #1148 of 3157
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS
I'm at ita's apartment with Moji, two cousins, and a friend from Jamaica, and they are making it so much easier to be here than I thought it would be. And they are being fairly unsentimental about much of the fandom stuff, so they want to know if y'all want anything--LotR playing cards, Crow collectible cards, dvds, shoes, books, etc. Most surprising is her art, so later I'll be posting pictures of what they're not taking, for those of you who want to keep a piece of her and the things she loved.
-t - Jan 23, 2015 9:46:14 am PST #1149 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Oh my goodness. I would love to have something and almost don't care what.
I'm glad it's easier than expected for you to be there.
Also, I like your tag, Polgara.
Dana - Jan 23, 2015 10:04:19 am PST #1150 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I hope someone will make good use of her beautiful clothes. That's another weird thought I keep having.
amyth - Jan 23, 2015 10:13:02 am PST #1151 of 3157
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
I'm so glad that it's easier than you thought it would be.
javachik - Jan 23, 2015 10:16:10 am PST #1152 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.
SO glad and relieved they're making it easier!!!
Sue - Jan 23, 2015 10:21:45 am PST #1153 of 3157
hip deep in pie
I'm glad it's been easier than you thought, Polgara.
erikaj - Jan 23, 2015 10:22:49 am PST #1154 of 3157
Always Anti-fascist!
Yeah, it's good that you have each other.
Callaluna - Jan 23, 2015 10:23:58 am PST #1155 of 3157
Gulp. Such a hard thing to have to do. Thinking of you guys, and hoping it can be completed with the least anguish possible.