This is a time of celebration, so sit still and be quiet.

Snyder ,'Chosen'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


-t - Jan 22, 2015 10:50:54 am PST #1088 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

The Ballad of ita: crowdsourced across multiple platforms.

Oh. That is what's happening.


-t - Jan 22, 2015 10:54:05 am PST #1089 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have thoughts about using the anger to do something practical (among other things, there's an upcoming event at my campus that touches on a lot of the issues ita faced), but I'm not sure what thread they'd belong in - this is a remembering and loving thread

I don't think that would be inappropriate here, JZ. If you are thinking of starting a business (including a non-profit as part of it) than, yeah the business thread. And you can always bring up anything in Natter. But if I had a vague idea that somebody was doing something practical and went looking for information, I would start with this thread. FWTW.


Katerina Bee - Jan 22, 2015 12:28:24 pm PST #1090 of 3157
Herding cats for fun

Oh you guys. Now I am crying again.

At least I am not a little drunk, like I was last night.

I had this wonderful post that referenced what I'd been reading bla bla bla... and then the words went away into the aether instead of the board. So I had to go away and process it all for awhile.

Hugs to you all.

Idea: use the energy to create the book. Make it sharp and funny like the Vampire People one, only with way more pictures. Edit until there is one personal version for her family and another for the world. Then use any resulting $$$ to fund a scholarship in her name. That sounds perfect for an entity living in the computer...


DavidS - Jan 22, 2015 2:32:01 pm PST #1091 of 3157
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm unsure how to get in touch with Odeck with scholarship info once they set it up. Hec or PolterCow have accounts, yes?

Yes, I'll follow it up with her as well so we'll get the word out.


beekaytee - Jan 22, 2015 2:46:06 pm PST #1092 of 3157
Compassionately intolerant

My education pompoms and I are ready to donate.

Una is me in this. I love beyond measure the idea of a STEM scholarship...or any other kind, in ita's name.

My friend Liz has a scholarship at UConn.

I'm not against flowers as a memorial, but I'd so much rather that dosh went to smart girls/kids in the name of smart girls/kids.


Volans - Jan 22, 2015 3:13:29 pm PST #1093 of 3157
move out and draw fire

Once it's set up, I'll donate myself and help spread the word on this to fandom and to the Women in Tech community

Same here, although less fandom and more on the women in tech and women of color startups stuff.


amych - Jan 22, 2015 3:17:25 pm PST #1094 of 3157
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Once it's set up, I'll donate myself and help spread the word on this to fandom and to the Women in Tech community.

I'm all in. I have a bunch of awesome tech ladies who I'm pretty sure would love to know about ita (less so fandom contacts anymore, but you do what you can...).


-t - Jan 22, 2015 3:32:37 pm PST #1095 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hey, while the legend is building, let's not forget that a comet appeared in the sky to mark her passing. As happens with great people sometimes.


sarameg - Jan 22, 2015 3:37:13 pm PST #1096 of 3157

Boxed Set's title jumped out at me after reading the last little bit: hint of denial and dash of retcon...


Allyson - Jan 22, 2015 3:51:52 pm PST #1097 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I can't get the obit below $1590 unless I run it on a week day. How would ita feel about cheaping out on her obituary? It feels disrespectful to not run it on Sunday. Talk me through this?

Also, I need a way higher resolution pic of her. She looks pixelated. She would not approve of looking like an Atari game in the 80s.

Or maybe she would. I'm tempted to try and find her old Stor avatar.