Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Scrappy - Oct 24, 2014 8:50:48 am PDT #8804 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Calli--speaking as an HR person, we don't ask people to keep an eye out for opening at out company unless they were impressive and we are actually interested.


Maria - Oct 24, 2014 9:00:40 am PDT #8805 of 30000
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

You all know my drama with estates after Rob's death. I had a will that was good in MD, but now that I'm in PA, I have to redo it. I should get on that....


msbelle - Oct 24, 2014 9:01:01 am PDT #8806 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Omg why do I have to be at work!


Cass - Oct 24, 2014 9:21:36 am PDT #8807 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Why do I have to take a training class in Human Trafficking? I did this a year ago and was not yet over the trauma. For once my employer designed a training well enough to engage you and it's the really, truly upsetting one.


Burrell - Oct 24, 2014 9:28:31 am PDT #8808 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Being executor sucks but that's because I find so much of it is beyond my skill set. Like taking care of corporate taxes? Not something I'm good at. Oh well.


-t - Oct 24, 2014 9:34:11 am PDT #8809 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

One of the things we established yesterday is that while I am the named primary executor, if I decline my sister will be assigned, and if she declines there's a professional fiduciary who will step in. Which is a relief. I think things will actually be pretty simple but I am glad there are plans b and c in place.


Jesse - Oct 24, 2014 9:35:07 am PDT #8810 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Calli--speaking as an HR person, we don't ask people to keep an eye out for opening at out company unless they were impressive and we are actually interested.

Yeah, I really hope my super sincere rejection emails along those lines (always emails!) are actually read and received. I really think you could work here! Not in this position!


Calli - Oct 24, 2014 9:51:28 am PDT #8811 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Calli--speaking as an HR person, we don't ask people to keep an eye out for opening at out company unless they were impressive and we are actually interested.

Yeah, I really hope my super sincere rejection emails along those lines (always emails!) are actually read and received. I really think you could work here! Not in this position!

Yeah, I'm fine with those comments in email. But the sound of high cheer in her voice grated like hell on my 4 months of unemployment. Don't phone me and make me be civil about my rejection. Send an email so I can weep in private.

ETA: It is nice to know they're not just blowing smoke about checking back, though. Thanks!


Zenkitty - Oct 24, 2014 10:01:11 am PDT #8812 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

professional fiduciary

I need to find my sister one of these, so she can name a backup in case I'm incapacitated. She'll never trust anyone but me to do it right, though; I suspect she doesn't really trust that I can do it.


Jesse - Oct 24, 2014 10:18:03 am PDT #8813 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Calling someone with bad news is definitely not my idea of a good time. It must be someone's idea of good manners?