Has anyone seen a Brit show called Lovejoy? It's available on Acorn and looks intriguing, but I'd like to know how people like it before paying for it.
'Potential'
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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
I have split pea soup that's been in the slow cooker for about six hours now and still needs to go a bit longer. I'm drinking IPA and watching hockey -- currently Penguins, but I'll switch over to the Blackhawks in a bit.
Lovejoy
I remember watching it on PBS in the late 1980s or early 1990s, liking it, regretting that more wasn't available. I think it was the first thing I had ever seen Ian McShane in.
Tried to go see Gone Girl, but it was sold out! So we got some popcorn anyway, listened to some brass bands [link] and came home.
Timelies all!
Taking advantage of free Wi-Fi. Access is kind of random here.
Took a harbor cruise and watched the Blue Angels today. Wow, that was amazing!
I did project-per-post-it list. Some will take a mere hour. Some...well, the goal is to keep busy. And have hardware stores own me (and each postit has a supplies list.) I'm up to 17.
Julie, you did the right thing. Not your job to make everyone feel all rosy about what sound like a horrid situation. Your job is to make you comfortable and safe. I'll be first to admit I've never had a high tolerance for drama and bullshit, but I've gotten more impatient with it over the years. In some ways, it's made me more selfish, I guess, but it's also made me happier and healthier.
Also, I don't really think of hormone reactions as irrational-just amplified. They are emotions I would have anyway, but would get mitigated by other coping mechanisms. Shunted, ignored, dismissed. It's like I don't have a volume knob. So that which would mildly annoy me but I'd blow it off? It's blaring at 11 in my ear. I'm cognizant that my sensitivity is amped, but it doesn't make the feels go away. And it doesn't mean that irritant is not annoying- just my ability to cope with it is altered. And so I'll cope with whatever I've got. And that's fine and doesn't make me irrational. It feels wildly out of control sometimes, especially in retrospect, but, well, I'm still me, just with different tolerances and tools than I'm used to. And that's sometimes uncomfortable.
Little bro starts out sympathetic, then pulls out the "suck it up, we're living with this daily and mom will DIE one day and you didn't go to the Bronx zoo with her!".
I have so many irrelevant things to say to that. One of them being that we were only going to the zoo because it was his desire to see it.
The one relevant thing you have to say to that is "I am not responsible for how you choose to live."
They chose to live it daily. You can choose how to spend the time with those that you want to in a meaningful manner.
She'll die one day and you don't have to remember an awkward, freaked out day at the zoo, pretending. You be the architect of what you want to share with them. And stop answering the phone, but that's just me and all that.