I am on a family holiday. I met up with them at 5 today and was ready to bail an hour in. It's 6 hours later and I'm only less crazed because I refused the sleeping arrangements my mom set up (me rooming with my two brothers who refused to share a bed, rather than getting the empty bed in my parents room.
My older brother kept hugging and squeezing me and bumping and touching that I had to ditch everyone at the pumpkin blaze. I don't have any memories of him molesting me as a kid but it's always niggled at the back of my mind and he was extra creepy in a sexual way ever since his fiancé dumped him and I've not liked being the only female in the room with him, even if the worst he ever did was rub one out with my best friend while I was in the room when I was 6.
I'm sorry, TMI, but I am so skeeved and can't imagine another 48 hours of this charade. At least when he went back to the car where my purse was locked up I only had six dollars in cash. But I might have my credit cards canceled anyway just in case he decides to do some online shopping.
Julie, listen to your instinct. Bail. I'm sorry, but that's all kinds of alarm bells.
Well, went out for a smoke and I assume it was my dad who threw the interior latch, so now I'm locked out. Sat with my brothers for a bit and tried banging on the door I was sharing with parents. Now sitting in my car wondering if I can live without my luggage until the next time I see my folks (yes). I can drive home in my jammies and slippers. I have my keys and wallet and only had two beers.
I did it. I got back in the room and grabbed all of my bags and I'm leaving. Oh my god.
Life should not resemble a sitcom on Fox.
I'm sorry Juliebird, that is just all kinds of wrong. Be safe
Yikes, Julie. That sounds like the right call.
I think you were right to bail, Juliebird. Badness.
Setting limits can be healthy.
Ugh, I cannot figure out how to arrange my weekend so that I can see friends, see my father, and do my work. Going to the nursing home for meals really fucks up the day -- lunch is at noon, and dinner is at five, and it really takes two hours to get there, visit, and get home. Makes it hard to do anything in the afternoon, either way!