I'll just jump in my time machine, go back to the twelfth century, and ask the vampires to postpone their ancient prophesy for a few days while you take in dinner and a show.

Giles ,'Selfless'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jun 01, 2015 8:44:05 am PDT #27685 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Yeah, the same guy on FB commented that "ADD didn't exist until it was created for the DSM2."

Because without a name for it, it just didn't exist. Right. (Seriously, that makes me so full of raaaaaaaaage.)

And then he goes on to say the US should follow France's example and "put down the pills" and change the diets of kids with ADD and be stricter parents and things would be better.

Okay, (1) I thought France "didn't have" ADD, so how is there even a non-pharmaceutical treatment protocol IF THEY DON'T HAVE IT???, and (2) my husband, who was unmedicated until he was in his 30s, vehemently disagrees that he needed a different diet and stricter parents. What the shit.


P.M. Marc - Jun 01, 2015 8:45:56 am PDT #27686 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I fucking hate that article. Such bullshit.


Connie Neil - Jun 01, 2015 8:48:38 am PDT #27687 of 30000
brillig

I do think what some people call ADD is actually the typical kid energy that used to be burned off with running around. Now that kids don't get let out to just burn off steam, I think a lot of that energy is being directed inwards to poor effect.

t cue "everything was better back in my day" waa-waa


Matt the Bruins fan - Jun 01, 2015 8:52:58 am PDT #27688 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Steph, would your anti-vaxxer fFB riend like to have my best friend's two ADD teenagers come stay with him sans Ritalin for a few days? I guarantee he'll believe in the existence of ADD by the time they leave.

I think if they ever get a shock from it, they'll stop, but I hope you can find a way to discourage them before they get a shock. I'm surprised and lucky that my cats don't do that, as much as they like to chase after things that look like snakes/worms.

I think I may buy a ghost pepper and smear its juice along the cable. At least they chewed up the DC line; if they'd tried the AC cord running into the adapter I might have one fewer cat.


Steph L. - Jun 01, 2015 8:54:54 am PDT #27689 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Steph, would your anti-vaxxer fFB riend like to have my best friend's two ADD teenagers come stay with him sans Ritalin for a few days? I guarantee he'll believe in the existence of ADD by the time they leave.

Hell, all he'd need is unmedicated Tim for a few days.


Nora Deirdre - Jun 01, 2015 8:55:59 am PDT #27690 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I will say, I find being around lots of people in bathing suits to be the best thing -- there are lots of people of all shapes and sizes out there! Many of them in bikinis!

Yeah, I definitely find that to be the case. Really, when I figured out that the only person who gives a shit about how I look in a bathing suit was me, I tried to let that go so I didn't miss out on fun stuff in life like tubing. It's a process, but it starts with trying.


Jesse - Jun 01, 2015 9:07:52 am PDT #27691 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Really, when I figured out that the only person who gives a shit about how I look in a bathing suit was me, I tried to let that go so I didn't miss out on fun stuff in life like tubing.

Yes!

I realize the vast diversity of people and total lack of caring about me are part of why I prefer the lower-class beach to higher-class ones, but I'm sure those things are true everywhere!


Una - Jun 01, 2015 9:09:24 am PDT #27692 of 30000
when i die, please bake my ashes into a brick and use me to hit fascists.

the only person who gives a shit about how I look in a bathing suit was me

This is also true for public speaking.


meara - Jun 01, 2015 9:19:21 am PDT #27693 of 30000

I realize the vast diversity of people and total lack of caring about me are part of why I prefer the lower-class beach to higher-class ones, but I'm sure those things are true everywhere

This is also why I'm perfectly comfortable in a bikini in Mexico. Because (a) most people there are like 60-something and (b) they're strangers IDGAF If they see my belly and judge. I'm slightly less comfy at a beach with my friends, but again...they're my friends. And many of them are big on the health at any size thing, so they're all for it. And if someone doesn't find me attractive eel, better they figure that out before we are naked?


Jesse - Jun 01, 2015 9:22:31 am PDT #27694 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And if someone doesn't find me attractive eel,

You are a very attractive eel, meara!