Oh, Maria, I'm sorry. I unfollowed a couple of my more conservative cousins a while ago and nobody has made anything but positive, supportive comments on anything I've posted. My one cousin sent a message but just asked if we were ok and offered a place to stay if we wanted. So, that's been nice.
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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
My Baltimore friends are not the problem. It's the PA ones. Because I'm friends with a lot of people who are also regular customers of the restaurant. For that reason, I keep FB as apolitical as possible. Some of them are more racist than I ever thought possible, but it's not my place to tell them to never cross my path again, because then we'd have no business left. It's just disheartening, and the latest drivel is how Freddie Gray had spinal surgery a week ago, and I can't find any independent confirmation of it other than what's on the conservative sites.
Thanks, lisah. Can you believe I had someone tell me last night that the Sun is just as bad as MSNBC and wikipedia? I turned right around and posted that the "proof" he was spouting came from liveleak.com. Didn't make a damned bit of difference.
I hate so very much the habit of always trying to find a way to pin the responsibility for suffering on the individual and not the system, and then using it an excuse to withhold what I would think of as a natural tendency to feel empathy and regret for someone else's suffering.
There's a lot of nuttiness out there. Idaho is resisting an international consistent regulation on child support payments on the grounds it would introduce Sharia law. And in Texas, where the Army is having exercises, the state is keeping an eye on them just in case they're (the Army, that is) is planning on overthrowing the state government. um ... huh?
There was something posted on Facebook in the last few days about how the belief that life is fair leads to people blaming individuals for their problems. If everyone gets what they deserve in a balanced universe, then obviously you deserve what happens to you.
I saw that--makes sense to me.
Obviously I don't think life is fair or that people deserve to suffer, but the thing of it is, even if I think someone has actively brought some of their misery upon themselves, that wouldn't make me less empathetic to their plight.
That's because you're a better person.