So there is something I can do, besides scream like a woman?

Wesley ,'Chosen'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Mar 05, 2015 2:15:47 pm PST #21402 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yep, in here for less than a month. Also, WTF???


Calli - Mar 05, 2015 2:18:11 pm PST #21403 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Furloughs suck.

Yay, SuziQ!

Unfortunately, they're doing a marathon of "Rich white people move to Spanish-speaking places."

Oh, ugh. I much prefer the one with the woman who renovates run down houses in Minneapolis and Detroit.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 05, 2015 2:19:18 pm PST #21404 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

People end up watching HGTV because there's fuckall else on tv, don't they.

That was my experience today, yes. And cute as Scott McGillivray is, people who can get a half million dollar home loan do not "need your help more than anyone," what they need is to lower their expectations to something they can reasonably pay for.


SuziQ - Mar 05, 2015 2:20:23 pm PST #21405 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I was surprised how fast a credit score can change with adding accounts and paying down existing debt. 12 points sounds very doable.

Yes and no. While I'm paying down old debt, because it is being paid through an agency and not Capital One, it doesn't get reported as being paid regularly. Once it is paid off, it will show different on the report, but that is a few years off. Apparently paying my student loans don't count, which seems odd to me. I'll have to ask again about that. Those are the only things I can pay down.

Taking out a secured card will cause an initial hit against the score, but paying it, even a couple of cycles, will more than offset the hit apparently. She is talking to some of her credit recovery guys on the best way to do the secured card. I'm just still freaking that I am is better shape than I thought.


Dana - Mar 05, 2015 2:28:11 pm PST #21406 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Oh, hey, Judge Judy.


NoiseDesign - Mar 05, 2015 2:33:42 pm PST #21407 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

That's really impressive, Drew! I have a really hard time with that myself when traveling--I don't have time for a sit-down restaurant but fast food is awful for me, but bringing something with is hard.

Yeah. The main thing for me is not worrying about it much beyond, "Don't drive through a place." I will run into Subway or something similar when I need to, but I really don't class a turkey sub anywhere near where I would grabbing a burger or going through Del Taco.


-t - Mar 05, 2015 2:42:08 pm PST #21408 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a reasonable line to try to draw. Impressive you've been able to stick to it!


Jessica - Mar 05, 2015 2:46:22 pm PST #21409 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Oh fuck, Plei. I know it's not your dream job or anything, but still!!

Suzi, good luck!!

The downside to free catered lunch at work every day is there is ALWAYS dessert available. There is also always salad, but the salad is sad and limp and the cookies are delicious.


javachik - Mar 05, 2015 3:20:37 pm PST #21410 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

NoiseDesign, funny you mention that about the fast food. I too haven't gone through any drive-through other than Starbucks since November! I quit the habit and I feel much better for it. I make sure I bring in carrots or some other snacky filling thing to eat for the drive home (when I was most likely to hit Taco Bell) and also make sure I have good food at home that I can prep and eat within 20 minutes. With my commute, knowing I can eat right away once I am home is key.

Suzi, I am so excited for you! So, one of the key differences between FHA and non-FHA is that if you don't put down 20% you'll need to pay PMI (mortgage insurance). For 2015, for certain income levels, that PMI is still deductible (like the mortgage interest).

ETA: Plei, that is a double whammy for sure and I am so sorry to hear it. Let me know if there's anything I can do for you.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 05, 2015 3:51:15 pm PST #21411 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Sorry to hear that life is piling the crap up on you, Plei.

This may be the most encouraging science news I've read in years: [link]

Ginger, think they might be realistic about their time estimate?