I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Mar 05, 2015 2:28:11 pm PST #21406 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Oh, hey, Judge Judy.


NoiseDesign - Mar 05, 2015 2:33:42 pm PST #21407 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

That's really impressive, Drew! I have a really hard time with that myself when traveling--I don't have time for a sit-down restaurant but fast food is awful for me, but bringing something with is hard.

Yeah. The main thing for me is not worrying about it much beyond, "Don't drive through a place." I will run into Subway or something similar when I need to, but I really don't class a turkey sub anywhere near where I would grabbing a burger or going through Del Taco.


-t - Mar 05, 2015 2:42:08 pm PST #21408 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a reasonable line to try to draw. Impressive you've been able to stick to it!


Jessica - Mar 05, 2015 2:46:22 pm PST #21409 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Oh fuck, Plei. I know it's not your dream job or anything, but still!!

Suzi, good luck!!

The downside to free catered lunch at work every day is there is ALWAYS dessert available. There is also always salad, but the salad is sad and limp and the cookies are delicious.


javachik - Mar 05, 2015 3:20:37 pm PST #21410 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

NoiseDesign, funny you mention that about the fast food. I too haven't gone through any drive-through other than Starbucks since November! I quit the habit and I feel much better for it. I make sure I bring in carrots or some other snacky filling thing to eat for the drive home (when I was most likely to hit Taco Bell) and also make sure I have good food at home that I can prep and eat within 20 minutes. With my commute, knowing I can eat right away once I am home is key.

Suzi, I am so excited for you! So, one of the key differences between FHA and non-FHA is that if you don't put down 20% you'll need to pay PMI (mortgage insurance). For 2015, for certain income levels, that PMI is still deductible (like the mortgage interest).

ETA: Plei, that is a double whammy for sure and I am so sorry to hear it. Let me know if there's anything I can do for you.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 05, 2015 3:51:15 pm PST #21411 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Sorry to hear that life is piling the crap up on you, Plei.

This may be the most encouraging science news I've read in years: [link]

Ginger, think they might be realistic about their time estimate?


Steph L. - Mar 05, 2015 3:54:20 pm PST #21412 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm both laughing and wanting to punch this author through my computer. The author who replied "no changes necessary" even though there were several direct queries he didn't answer? One of the queries was to change the title, because it was vague and wasn't science-y enough (the senior staff prefers the article titles be about whatever medical dealie the article is about, not something like "Bold Changes Ahead!", which is more or less what this guy titled his article).

His reply? "I like the title."

He might actually be Bartleby the Scrivener.

I'm punting this one to my boss. I'm over this jackhole.


Jesse - Mar 05, 2015 4:01:17 pm PST #21413 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Steph, that sounds like some of my coworkers. At least you (/your boss) have some leverage in the situation?


msbelle - Mar 05, 2015 4:02:48 pm PST #21414 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

both of us - fold and put away clothes from drying racks
me - vacuum front room - carpet and furniture (damn animals)

me - use up as much of the perishable food as I can - 2 egg scrambles done and all breakfast sausage cooked, big salad with leftover chicken, caprese salad and leftover pizza
both of us - vacuum respective bedrooms, put away clothes
both of us - pack - mac has laid out his clothes for me to check
me - litter boxes
mac - vacuum furniture in backroom

me - DEAL WITH THE PAPER EVERYWHERE
me - upload medical bills to fsa - did one, have not found others
me - start taxes? (honestly probably not)
me - check all bills to make sure are paid
me - food scraps to compost.

I may still get started on packing, and I will absolutely get mac's stuff packed. Since the roads cleared, I went to the store for a few things and mailed 2 packages. There were definitely be school and work tomorrow, so paper will most likely not be dealt with thoroughly. The food, I will take lunch to work tomorrow and then just do the best I can with dinner tomorrow night. Maybe I'll pack a salad for the plane.


Steph L. - Mar 05, 2015 4:04:32 pm PST #21415 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Steph, that sounds like some of my coworkers. At least you (/your boss) have some leverage in the situation?

I've actually not yet encountered an author who flatly refused to change something when we requested that they do so; I'm not sure at what point we say "Okay, we'll leave your stupid-sounding title," versus "Change the title or our goons will show up to remove your kneecaps!" [SPOILER: we don't actually have goons.]