Looked out the front to see if I needed to put out more salt (actually sugar byproduct, I think) and neighbor's parking lights are on. Knock on door, no answer, go in to send a note, hear door, he's on it. My knocking made him look. Except now I note the vacant's sump is dumping an enormous amount of water out with regularity suggestive of a flooded basement due to pipe burst. Across the street. I have the tool to shut off the water. Do I? I don't know. I hate being an adult,
Looks like civilization finally caught up with us.
Mal ,'Bushwhacked'
Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
sarameg - Feb 17, 2015 6:03:05 pm PST #19625 of 30000
sarameg - Feb 17, 2015 6:14:09 pm PST #19626 of 30000
Can't find the meter without shoveling snow, so. 311 it is.
Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 17, 2015 6:42:29 pm PST #19627 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand
Matt- Holy Moses! Did your cats invite their friends?
If they invited their dad (well, Molly's anyway) it would make more sense as he's a very stocky and muscular alley cat half again as big as either of them. It irks me to no end that the grizzled old vet who's been eating out of dumpsters for a couple of years will let me pick him up, no problem, but one of my own cats tries to run or struggle and the other freaks out like I'm going to toss her into a woodchipper.
Zenkitty - Feb 17, 2015 6:52:55 pm PST #19628 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Those cats of yours are Siamese, aren't they, Matt? Smart, mouthy, high-strung? Two cats on a chase rampage could knock your sofa arm off! Some cats just don't like being picked up - my formar stray Murray will endure it for 1.5 seconds and then starts wriggling and flailing. The funny thing is, when he was a stray outside, he would let me pick him up, and nestle in my arms! He was totally playing me.
WindSparrow - Feb 17, 2015 6:54:33 pm PST #19629 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
but one of my own cats tries to run or struggle and the other freaks out like I'm going to toss her into a woodchipper.
Matt, some cats just cannot bear to be held. Sammie hates to be picked up or held. I think the only time she did not struggle to get away from being held was that rainy day when I first heard her meowing from up in a tree. I think A) she was cold and needed my warmth, and 2) knew she was going home. Now, 13 years later, struggles to get out of my arms like I might be hungry for cat flesh. Her idea of snuggling is to lie near by, and let me put one arm next to her. She isn't a lap cat, she's a lap desk cat. Confining physical contact just does not work for her, and she shows her affection and trust in other ways.
Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 17, 2015 7:05:32 pm PST #19630 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand
Those cats of yours are Siamese, aren't they, Matt?
I think Jackson's father must have been Siamese, but while he has the coloring he's stocky and relatively mellow-he only gets vocal and needy around feeding time in the morning. Molly's father is the aforementioned chill black alleycat, and their mother is a solid gray shorthair who's since disappeared.
aurelia - Feb 17, 2015 7:19:13 pm PST #19631 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Question for the cat-knowledgeable: Finn and new kitty are still getting along, hanging out, playing, and generally being buds, but Finn is still barely eating. Is that normal, given the disruption in his routine?
Are you still feeding them in separate rooms? It could be that Finn just doesn't want to lose track of Spidey. Maybe try feeding them within sight of each other?
Atropa - Feb 17, 2015 7:33:09 pm PST #19632 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Matt, some cats just cannot bear to be held
Miss Erzabet No Biting, who will cry until I let her under the blanket on my lap, or who will herd me to a chair so she can sit on my lap and be cuddled, HATES being picked up. Picking up is VERY BAD for Erzabets, and must not ever be done.
P.M. Marc - Feb 17, 2015 8:34:32 pm PST #19633 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Susan, we should grab coffee and commiserate. I swear.
beth b - Feb 17, 2015 8:34:56 pm PST #19634 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I see kids of all ages with all kinds of accounts so these are my passing not parental thoughts
I think if you can monitor it, it might be ok. She deals with some 14 yr old stuff, but maybe you can make it clear to her that you are concerned about the over 18 stuff ( or over 21 ) and that will make you shut it down.
I don't know if you have any limits on screen time/computer time. if she gets an hour a day on the computer - keep that limit in place - so she has to make choices?
and if she is like a lot of the smart geeky kids i know ( and I was like ) most are pretty self censoring because there were things we didn't want to deal ( sex in stories was boring, uberviolence was unfun , etc)
maybe a few rules - like avatars are ok, but no real pictures - that sort of thing
All of my cats learn to be handled, because it has to happen. However, that is not always a painless or 100% perfect project