You've got my support. Just think of me as...as your... You know, I'm searching for 'supportive things' and I'm coming up all bras.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jan 30, 2015 7:54:32 am PST #17647 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Get-through-the-process~ma, flea.

My cube-neighbor is getting a new keyboard drawer (or somethinga dn probably other stuff) which will be good for her I'm certain but means I'm hearing power tools all day. That doesn't always annoy me, but today it sure does.


Connie Neil - Jan 30, 2015 8:07:18 am PST #17648 of 30000
brillig

We'd see deer tracks in the parking lot snow at the old building. When I was doing the 6 AM shift on Sundays, I'd occasionally see deer actually browsing through our bushes.


Calli - Jan 30, 2015 8:08:08 am PST #17649 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Bummer about the inspection, flea. I hope you'll be able to get the house stuff worked out soon, so you and the family can get settled.


Toddson - Jan 30, 2015 8:13:42 am PST #17650 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I don't know about the pointy ends of the flossing sticks, but someone once managed to escape from prison using dental floss. (Really - I don't have to make this stuff up.) He took dental floss - lots and lots of dental floss - and made himself a rope to escape with; I don't remember if it was just a rope or he made it into a rope ladder. Whichever it was, he got out of prison with it.

They stopped handing out packages of dental floss after that. I think they'd give prisoners a measured length ... and probably collected the used lengths (ick).


SuziQ - Jan 30, 2015 8:15:54 am PST #17651 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

flea - please share you experience, either here or message me. I'm hoping to be ready to do this on my own. I don't have a Mr. Suziq to discuss the process with and my past home buying experiences are YEARS ago and in hindsight I just let it happen instead of being a part of the process. Not how I want to go forward.

tl;dr - please keep sharing.


Liese S. - Jan 30, 2015 8:35:24 am PST #17652 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Agree with Suzi, but George Winston is an excellent choice! He once did a blurb for my husband's piano piece.


WindSparrow - Jan 30, 2015 8:54:06 am PST #17653 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Liese, that makes me feel even more validated in my love for the musician who inspired me to take piano lessons during high school.


Maria - Jan 30, 2015 9:16:10 am PST #17654 of 30000
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Suzi, I'm around if you have questions too. It's not an impossible process, but it requires attention to detail and lots of document gathering.

I will, however, tell you to under no circumstances, even attempt to open up any new lines of credit until you have closed on your house. It will cause you untold grief and teeth gnashing. Also don't make any drastic financial moves. They will question everything.

You and your father should also discuss how exactly he is going to help you. Is he co-signing or his he giving you money to use for a down payment? The first is much simpler, while the second would require a gift letter and could subject you to taxes on the amount above $14,000.

The thing to remember is that the bank will want to know the provenance of your money. They are hyper-aware of the potential for shadiness.


flea - Jan 30, 2015 9:24:08 am PST #17655 of 30000
information libertarian

Yes, for example, when I signed an agreement to lease a trombone for Casper's school band last October, they apparently ran a credit report, so now the mortgage lender needs documentation (which I have, but still) of her $28-a-month trombone habit. Any credit reports pulled in the last 6 months they'll want documentation, on, they told me. And in my first mortgage, my stepfather gave us a gift of money, and we had to produce a letter from him documenting the gift.


esse - Jan 30, 2015 9:25:20 am PST #17656 of 30000
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

It is a sad morning when you are able to sleep in an extra hour but forgot to turn the ringer off on your phone and get periodically woken by people trying to reach you first thing.

I am off to San Diego Sunday. Do we have people in San Diego? I'm down there for business so I don't know how much time I'll have. The best thing I did in 2014 was get a TSA precheck number.